What is the first choice everyone faces at the beginning of their life? Cast tire
Reincarnation is definitely a technical job. Without thousands of years of training, no one can master it.
(Sicong, I didn`t call you a thousand-year-old demon)
For the editor, long life can rely on their own efforts to change fate, the original change family.
But once you`re reincarnated into a family of demons, a family that has a ruthless child of its own, it`s really the wrong thing to do!
In many cases in China, the editor watched a cold heart. In the video, a baby still in swaddling was slapped in the face by her own mother and put her hand over the baby`s face, as if it had to be destroyed. In the end, the child was abused and killed. Tens of thousands of comments were made by netizens:
"all the way, son, die early, I hope you don`t meet someone like this next baby."
There was also a video released by stealthie a few months ago, in which the girl was abused by her family, slapped in the face with an open bow, a broom was slapped on the back, her hair was pulled and pulled, and she was even pushed to the ground with her feet.
The cruelty of the woman`s tactics in the video is startling, causing a sensation on the Internet. It was only after the exposure that it was the poor little girl`s biological parents who had been brutally assaulted.
Hell is full, the devil is on earth. If you throw the wrong baby, live with the devil!
How many parents in the world, no matter how yell, how fierce children, children love your age, but the children wanton torture, people will not learn to be kind?
Tiger poison does not eat, kinship is the most basic human emotion, the most primitive existence, is an innate psychological reaction. Don`t these biological parents understand?
Similar tragedies are common all over the world, and Australia is a frequent occurrence.
And recently in Perth, a 13-month-old baby from birth may be prone to disaster, premature delivery, illness, and eventually faced his biological mother of murder.
Brooke Evelyn Lucas, a 26-year-old Perth woman, was tried in Perth District Court today for the second time since Saturday. She has committed a crime of feeding bleach to her sick son, who will be charged with intentional murder or attempted murder.
The woman`s own son, William, who is only 13 months old, was born 14 weeks prematurely and managed to save her life after trying to save her life at the hospital. However, life is saved, waiting for him is endless torture.
On December 29, Lucas tried to poison his son, William, when William was discharged from Perth Children`s Hospital (Perth Children's Hospital) for five days, according to officers at (Child Abuse Squad), a child abuse investigation team in Western Australia.
William has been through a series of rehabilitation treatments since 14 weeks of preterm labor, although his life is safe, but his illness in and out of the hospital is common, and he has a condition called Pearl Robbins disease. The ability to breathe and eat is particularly problematic and requires 24-hour care.
Last Christmas, Lucas even posted a Facebook post calling it a "Christmas miracle" when he was treated for bronchitis at the hospital, when doctors ordered children to go home with their parents for Christmas.
A few days after William followed his mother home, Lucas tried to poison William`s esophagus by pouring bleach into his esophagus. After the incident, the boy was rushed to Perth Children`s Hospital with a esophagus inserted in his throat. He has been discharged from hospital and is gradually recovering.
Lucas is currently on remand and will appear again tomorrow. She looked very anxious and heartbroken on court, shaking and crying for a while.
She will be sent to a psychiatric hospital in Frankland Centre, Graylands Hospital, to undergo a seven-day mental illness test to ensure and treat her possible mental health problems.
Lucas will return to Perth District Court on January 21. And will be transferred to the Stirling Gardens District Court on January 30.
According to Australian Royal Children's Hospital, Pilbbin`s disease (Pierre Robin Syndrome, also known as Pierre Robin Complex/ Sequence) is not terminal, and as the respiratory tract grows, the respiratory problems of most babies gradually disappear.
Pierre Robbins` disease was named after French dentist Pierre Robin in 1923 and was 1/8500 in 1983. It is mainly associated with symptoms of small chin, retraction, cleft jaw and retroglossal droop.
The disease is caused by dysplasia of the lower jaw at the embryonic stage. Under normal conditions, when the fetus is 7 to 10 weeks pregnant, the lower jaw develops rapidly, allowing the tongue to be placed between the upper and lower jaws, such as if the lower jaw does not grow normally and is too small. So that the tongue can not be placed in the correct position, will be stuffed in the mouth, obstruct the closure of the jaw lid, the occurrence of cleft jaw; After birth, too small a jaw can squeeze the tongue behind the mouth, hinder breathing, and severe ones can cause dyspnea.
Talk about Children`s Education
Whether living in China or Australia, whether Chinese or foreigners, the education of children has always been a topic worth discussing! Especially the Chinese living abroad, do not know how to do it!
Of course, howling education, or even rough uprising hand, is a very stupid way of education, which is not conducive to the physical and mental development of children.
Although we all know this, and that`s why we often fall into guilt after our anger at our children, and we even hide and cry. Sadly, after we feel guilty, the next time we encounter the same thing, we can`t help yelling or even hitting them.
Why is this?
Based on a number of cases and personal experiences, there are probably three main reasons:
The first is the cycle of the education model of beating and scolding; under the influence of the primary family`s beating and scolding education, it is subconsciously thought that this kind of education has the effect, and the education is used on the child in a subtle way.
Second, the cognitive level is limited, and it is difficult to realize from the heart that beating and scolding education will cause far-reaching harm to children`s character, pattern and behavior pattern.
Third, poor emotional management ability; unable to regulate their emotions and correctly express their emotions, and so on.
Based on these factors, we are in a vicious circle of remorse and remorse as we beat and scold our children.
Be kind to the child
So, what can we do to be nice to our children-not only to yell at them, but also to educate them?
Of course there is. In order to solve this problem, we can draw lessons from the following four approaches:
First, self-reflection, good summary. Raising a child is a spiritual practice that needs to be self-examined and summed up by parents. The stronger the ability to introspect and summarize, the more energy the change has.
For example, when parents have the ability to introspect and sum up their homework, they will understand that children who drag their homework and repeat a mistake several times are not listening carefully, nor are they deliberately angry with their parents, but that there is indeed a difference between the children. He`s just too savvy.
In the face of low-savvy children, temper will only dampen children`s confidence, exacerbate his fear of learning and inferiority.
What parents need to do is patience, patience.
Only by reviewing and summarizing, can we change our own original cognition and get a suitable way of education for our children.
Second, more respect, change communication. Respect is a prerequisite for communication. Although a child is a child, but also has an independent personality, every parent should realize this.
If you forget this, communication with your child is often ineffective.
For example, in the face of drag on their children`s homework, in many cases, parents will always be eager to say, "threat:"
"Why don`t you write it? Want to be taught a lesson, don`t you? "
When you yell at your child, threat`s child, his inner emotions are fear and revulsion, and it`s hard for him to concentrate on what you want to say, and more to suppress his emotions.
So, when you want to ask your child to concentrate and finish your homework quickly, change the question threat to hypothetical guidance.
"if you finish your homework by 9: 00, congratulations, you have half an hour to watch TV or play some games!"
The advantage of this approach is that the child immediately feels self-sovereignty and respected. He would be more willing to accept it than to stand against his parents.
On the other hand, children can also think about how to better coordinate learning and entertainment time.
Third, it should be less arranged to cultivate self-determination. The premise of children`s autonomy is that the parents do not arrange, hard-hearted let the children themselves responsible for themselves.
For example, bed, homework, and so on, do not need countless reminders and reminders.
If the child is bedridden, he will be late and criticized by the teacher; if he does his homework, he will be punished by the teacher after he can`t finish his homework. It was only after he was criticized and punished that he knew what the consequences would be without self-discipline.
If he complains, tell him: you have to do your own thing, and you can`t rely on your parents for everything.
Only in this way will he take care of and be responsible for daily life, learning and so on.
Fourth, replace emotional education with regular education. The way of education by beating, scolding and yelling can only be a shock for a while, and reasoning can only annoy children, while regular education can ensure that children can learn happily and grow up healthily in a good environment to the greatest extent. Can let him self-consciously regulate his behavior, self-esteem and self-discipline.
Therefore, we should learn to use rule education instead of emotional education.
If only one thing is required at a time-when the child has this consciousness, he will do his homework, play well, and slowly form the consciousness and ability to concentrate. When he deviated, his parents kindly reminded him that he would not resent it, because there was such a rule in his subconscious mind, knowing that he was wrong.
Another rule is to go to the supermarket only to buy the same thing at a time-a rule that allows children to face things they like more in accordance with their inner choices, not to be held back by greed, or even to cry. Because he will understand that not meeting the requirements of the rules, parents will not be satisfied.
Here, however, it is worth reminding that, psychologically, there is no cooperation without love.
The premise for a child to follow the rules is that you have a close relationship with him. This is the basis for winning cooperation.
So, hopefully, parents will understand that before educating their children, spend their time and energy with them and let them know that they feel your love and concern.
Finally, do parents know when their children will be happy?
Surveys have shown that children feel happy when their parents are calm and stable.
No matter how much yell and fight, children love us at an age when they need the happiness we give.
Therefore, I hope we learn to stop yelling and irritability, learn to be kind to our children, in fact, we are also kind to our inner self.
The way to raise a child is to practice for life as a parent.
