Perhaps, each young person has a dream of studying abroad, 26-year-old Xiao Ying is no exception.
"now the daughter will sell the house to study, the house is written her name, how to do it!" Xiao Ying`s mother, 50-year-old Yang, anxiously asked journalist for help on the Quanyin Bridge pedestrian street in Chongqing.
It turns out that Ms. Yang and her husband are employees of state-owned enterprises, and their wages are ordinary. But after graduating from Xiaoying University, her daughter offered to study in Australia more than once. "giving her the old book for her to go to school can barely afford it, but the economic pressure is too heavy for us to agree." Ms. Yang said she had no idea that recently, her daughter had decided to sell the house she had bought for her.
The college-graduated daughter is waiting to work at home to "nibble on the old" for a year.
Ms. Yang told reporters that Xiaoying stayed at home for a year, and she was raised by the couple. After graduating from Xiaoying University, she joined an overseas purchasing agency to do a copywriting job, and then moved to a pharmaceutical company to do publicity. Because she often stayed up late and became worse, she quit her job and stayed at home.
Unexpectedly, my daughter stays at home for a year. Ms. Yang and her husband took good care of their daughter`s daily meals and living and found that Xiao Ying had become a lot lazier this year. "it wasn`t until 10:30 in the morning that we got up and asked us to ask pocket money, to go out to dinner and see a movie with a friend when the money was over."
Ms. Yang said that Xiaoying has no job and no boyfriend, and occasionally go out with her friends, and almost no communication with society, she and her husband in the eyes are very worried.
Once went abroad to attend a summer camp and secretly prepared to study abroad
Two months ago, Ms. Yang wanted her daughter to return to a stable job, but she told them she planned to study in Australia. It turned out that when Xiao Ying was in high school, she had attended an Australian summer camp for half a month. After returning, she had always been obsessed with Australia, and now she still wants to study abroad.
Ms. Yang was surprised. She dissuaded Xiao Ying. "you are all 26," she said. "you have come back almost 30, and now it is impractical to go abroad. And we`re not a very good family. It`s really hard for you to go to school. " She and her husband repeatedly stressed that there was no money at home for her daughter to study abroad, and that her daughter did not mention studying abroad and promised her parents to find a good job. Recently, however, Ms. Yang discovered that it was only her daughter`s "reprieve."
Last week, Ms. Yang cleaned up her daughter`s room and found that the bookcase contained information and forms about studying abroad, the date of the form was recently written, and there were many books under the pillow, all of which had traces of recent flipping. "she`s not an English major, and she can`t use English to find a job. Her father and I immediately judged that she was still secretly preparing to study behind our backs!"
Insist on selling houses and studying abroad dream
That night, after Xiao Ying and her friends returned from play, Ms. Yang put her Yaxi book in front of her and asked her if she wanted to study abroad. This time, Xiaoying simply admitted, and said she had long planned to sell home to study. Xiao Ying said that Ms. Yang and her husband gave her a 60-square-meter house in Nanping a few years ago.
"how could she be so willful?" Ms. Yang said that she and her daughter broke out on the same day, Xiao Ying refused to communicate with her parents since then, locked up in the room every day, even eat not to talk to their parents.
Yesterday, reporter telephoned Xiaoying, her voice very dissatisfied: "this kind of thing is also necessary to tell others?" Talking about the reasons why she has to study abroad, Xiaoying said she likes the culture and beauty there, that studying in Australia is more likely than other countries to obtain immigration qualifications, have more jobs, and cost-effective tuition. Even if you can`t stay there, you can also study abroad and have the advantages of academic background and language. "now that the price of the house has gone up, I sell it, and it`s a reasonable use of resources for my rigid needs."
Xiaoying thought that the reasonable way, but worried about Ms. Yang, she worried that the house only wrote the name of a daughter, they simply can not stop her daughter from selling a home to study: "how can we break her unrealistic dream of going abroad?"
Is it so beautiful to go abroad? According to Xiao Ying, study abroad may be able to emigrate, there are more job opportunities, but also have the advantages of academic background and language, in fact, is that really the case?
Nearly half of the initial employment wages of "returnees" are less than 6000 yuan.
"returnee" used to be synonymous with high-end talent, and was a hot spot for high-paid hiring in the talent market. Nearly 50 percent of "returnees" earn less than 6000 yuan after tax after initial employment, while 68.9 percent of returnees surveyed believe they are far below their expected wages, according to a report on the 2017 China returnee Employment and Entrepreneurship Survey released by a recruitment website in August.
According to the report, 6000 yuan or less of the first-time employment of returnees accounted for 44.8 percent, followed by 6001 yuan, accounting for 22.7 percent.
When asked whether actual work income was in line with individual expectations, only 1 percent thought they were above expectations, 30.1 percent thought they were basically in line with expectations, and 68.9 percent thought they were well below expectations. The salary level is not low compared with the recent graduates in China. < 2017 graduate employment power survey report > shows that 53.7% of recent college graduates actually signed a monthly salary concentrated in 2000 to 3999 yuan (pre-tax). Experts said that due to a generally better family environment for returnees, high investment in the early stage, coupled with a lack of understanding of the domestic employment environment, there is a higher expectation of the salary level.
However, with the title of "returnee", it is still easier to get a job at home. According to the survey, 38.6% of the returnees surveyed could get their first job in 1-3 months, while 32.1% spent less than one month, 18.5% spent 3-6 months, and 7% spent 6-12 months. 3. 8% of those spending 1 year or more.
These returnees say so.
Is it so beautiful to study abroad? Yesterday, journalist randomly surveyed 32 workers who were overseas or had studied abroad. Among them, more than 20 interviewees said that the life of studying abroad is dull and boring, it is very difficult to get a diploma just to finish school, if not a good school, return to China will continue to bear the pressure of employment.
Miss Wang, 25, lives in Chongqing Oil Road and is studying in Melbourne, Australia. She studied finance in Australia two years after graduating from university. "abroad, it is much more difficult to study than domestic universities, not only have language barriers, but also foreign universities have extremely high requirements for essay. If you want to travel and enjoy the scenery abroad, it is impossible at all. "
Ms. Wang said Xiao Ying`s immigrants, who only live in Australia for several years, are eligible and difficult to apply for. Abroad, the most difficult is the loneliness in a foreign country. Foreigners all have their own cultural background, and few people are willing to be good friends with foreigners. The circle of foreign students is very small, because of the different background of life, there are few close friends who can talk. To tell the truth, to escape employment pressure by studying abroad is a little too good to lose. "
With a background in the UK, Ms. Tian, who teaches in high school, also told reporters that studying in the UK is the most difficult and hard time of her life. "I told other people that I had stayed in the United Kingdom and others thought it sounded very foreign-minded, but in fact, many foreign universities are in the villages and towns, and they have to take more than two hours of train to the big cities, and the life of studying abroad is so monotonous. School cafeteria food is expensive and not taste, usually only in the rental house to make some tomatoes scrambled eggs and other simple dishes to eat. " Miss Tian lost 8 jin for this.
"I think that if studying abroad is really something you can learn, you can choose to study abroad, but in order to escape the pressure of employment, there is no need at all. If you return to China to find a job, you still have to find a job. If you can`t learn anything, it is a waste of time."
