According to the Daily Mail, Australian sex expert Nadia Bokody recently attacked the concept of marriage, but she has been married for several years.
The 34-year-old Nadia said that "monogamy is not really something in our genes," and that educated adults who volunteered to choose marry were "idiots."
"I have to go a step further. In fact, many of us have thought this way, just because we are afraid of being pointed at by other people, so I seldom say that it is against the law of nature to always have make love with the same person."
Nadia said she had studied human relationships and found that humans were not born to spend their lives with the same person.
The study also showed that 1/3 of marriages were affected by partner infidelity.
"1/5 people are cheating right now," explains Nadia. It's not because we're cold-blooded animals. On the contrary, humans are capable of forming meaningful and complex relationships with another person. It's just that this loyalty is not in our genes. "
Nadia also points out that people now live longer than they did when their wedding vows were first used. This means that humans spend more time with the people they choose to marry.
"it's not that easy to live together for more than 30 years if you have 10 years to live with."
Nadia, a self-styled sex expert, said the hundreds of millions of yuan worth of sex products market also showed that people would need help later in order to have a harmonious sex life with their partner.
Another problem Nadia doesn't understand is that women wear white when they get married. Generally speaking, white means the purity of the bride, but Nadia doesn't think it matters.
Nadia's mother once told her that it is pointless to be with someone who makes you very miserable.
"when you take these factors into account, it's no surprise that new relationships have emerged, including open marriage and celibacy."