We've heard too many stories of children coming out of the closet to their parents in such an off-the-corner age. However, parents come out to their children, have you ever heard of them?
I came out to my child tonight, which is harder than to my wife and my mother! I'm still shaking, but I think they'll be fine.-Uh. Father, I think the heart of your child should be rough!
So, here's the problem! When parents come out to their children, are the parents more nervous or the children more ignorant?
BuzzFeed recently shared personal experiences with some of the Internet users, and let's take a look at how these people deal with this rare, sensitive issue.
Having 'hurt' each other:
When I was in college, I came out to my mom via video, and she told me she was gay too! It's great that your parents are gay as you are, because they can totally accept and understand you! We all feel so lucky!
Scientists have confirmed that homosexuality can be inherited.
The picture doesn't match, but obesity is also heritable.
A little awkward:
My partner and I were about to adopt a 5-year-old daughter, and after we drove out twice, one day, sitting in the back seat, she suddenly asked us, "so, are you brothers?" We made a frank statement that we were in a relationship, and then she said, "Oh. What an embarrassment. "
There is a strong support for the children:
When the father came out of the closet with his child, his child was very supportive of him. More surprised, on Father's Day, his single rooms were decorated in rainbow color by his family.
Another transgender 'mother' said: "my children understand me very well. They even call me Dad right away. It's the sweetest thing in the world." My son also made a card at school saying, "I understand that life as a transgender is difficult, but remember that you will always have a family who loves you!"
These children are so warm!
Some kids figure it out for themselves.
My mother never really came out of the closet, she just let me and my sister live with her same-sex lover.
-as a child, you'll know when you grow up.
Elizabeth Collins posted a photo with his father and his boyfriend and said: "my dad didn't come out with us at all. I know he must have divorced my mom. I always guessed if he was a member of the mafia and killed anyone." It took me three years to figure out that his roommate was actually his lover.
This girl, Xiao Wei, doesn't think that from your father's figure, he can't be a mafia!
There are kids who help their parents keep secrets:
My dad came out of the closet when my sister and I were 12 years old, and the hardest part was that he didn't go public because of the conservative environment in which he would have lost his job, Natalie Perry said. Best of all, our parents are still good friends even if they are separated. Soon after the divorce, my father met his current partner, and he became a member of our family. As a matter of fact, Dad's coming out of the closet has made our family closer together!
-the whole family does secret work together, and this father is very happy!
There was also a child's shoe when the mother came out of the closet at the age of 12-why did you all choose 12? Does it have anything to do with the twelfth zodiac? Is there any connection with the twelve constellations? Wait online. It's urgent!
I learned at a family meeting that my mother was gay, and my parents explained what had happened, but I cried. Not because she came out, but because I knew my perfect family was over! I was worried about her, but now she's fine, and having two moms is the best!
Only a mother is the best in the world, and the children of two moms can't forget it!
And the kids don't matter:
When my 11-year-old daughter made hot chocolate, I told her that my friend was my girlfriend. She said, "OK! Would you like hot chocolate? " I was overwhelmed by her indifference, and I explained, "girlfriend means I hug and kiss her, just like heterosexual couples." She looked at me and asked, "do you want hot chocolate or not?"
The little friend is actually trying to say, what does it matter to me?
'when I was growing up, I learned to be indifferent, 'said another Houston-based man. Marriage should be equal, and it is very happy that last year my two mothers finally legally married, you know, they have been together for 21 years!
-same-sex relationships outlive those of the opposite sex! Seven years of itching! The average person has cheated on me three times!
These are just netizens vote out warm heart story, but the actual situation varies from person to person, estimates also unacceptable.
These years, it is easy to derailment, out of the cabinet is not easy, and line and cherish it!