After the Chinese have lived abroad for a long time, they will find that they have gradually adapted themselves to foreign life.
When he returned to China, he found that he had gone abroad and went abroad. This kind of embarrassment makes some overseas Chinese fall into confusion, why did they go abroad in the first place?
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
We found that living habits abroad, we finally forget what it was to go abroad, even if not forget, but also to that initial goal, often blurred.
For some people who have lived overseas for years, it may be very clear that the truth is that they cannot go back, even if they do, it is very difficult to integrate into Chinese society.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
First, it is very difficult for the Chinese to integrate into the Chinese society when they return home.
Recently, an article became popular. The author of this article is a Chinese who has lived abroad for many years but has finally chosen to return to China for development. After he returned home, he encountered all kinds of shocks and inconsistencies. Many values and lifestyles at home are so different from those abroad. In his article, he wrote what he saw and heard, which resonated with many overseas Chinese.
The author says he has lived in Europe for many years and has known friends in a variety of industries. Among them are young people in their early twenties and middle-aged people in their thirties. Their age is only a number, and there is no so-called norm of "what to do at what stage." and marriage is only an option, not a "standard match" of life. Nothing should deviate from that ultimate summons: how should I live my life?
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
It all happens around me. I can think, make decisions, act freely.
The most important thing is, no one will come to your life to tell and judge. You manage your life, and you know it.
But upon returning home, this "border" disappears, with countless buzzing voices around you trying to capture your mind and fight for interpretation of the meaning of your life.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
1, "see if there's anyone as old as you who's not married yet?"
2, "you've been to a lot of places, you've had a lot of experience, but what's the use?" I'm telling you, at home, you need to be practical. You've missed a lot of opportunities to get on the bus in the past few years. "
3. "you are 30 years old, and you are going to be eliminated by the post-1995 generation."
4, "Why are you still doing such a poor job in the media?"
These voices often come from familiar relatives, friends and social circles.
At all times in China, the author does not feel that he is a "minority," and has been put into the "framework" of the outside world time and time again to examine and judge (judge), although he does not want to say that the values are shaken, but he has also repeatedly contrasted with the outside world in spirit. Tension and conflict consume a great deal of effort and enthusiasm.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
But abroad, there is no "confrontation" with the outside world, "self-preservation" all these defensive links are open, whether you are a 37-year-old single youth or a doctorate in literature, no one is interested in judging.
Second, when he returned to China, he found himself at the bottom of the society.
If you can earn ten cents at home, you shouldn't just five cents, don't ask what the price is, don't worry about whether or not you are happy; as long as you are not like us, you are like a monster, you will live very badly.
The author said that his friends, who often gather in Europe, are in various industries, such as design, warehouse management, wine blending in bars, tattoo shops, programmers, and administrative work in the company. There are, of course, financial and idleness, no one cares about each other's achievements, prospects and income in their respective industries, and everyone comes together at will to share time, news and jokes.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
In fact, many of them are engaged in what we seem to be mediocre jobs. But they are all humorous and intelligent and live open and free.
More importantly, both themselves and the friends and families around them, with sincere enthusiasm for the profession they are working in, discover endless values and feelings of meaning-altruism, happiness, Freedom or personal growth.
While overseas 30-year-olds are still in love, change jobs, travel, and explore themselves, their domestic peers are living in anxiety and fear all day long, worried that their houses cannot be supplied, that they cannot change new cars, and that their children cannot go to famous primary schools. The position will one day be replaced by younger generations or robots.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
And domestic, engaged in some "less money" occupation, will be regarded as the "bottom of society".
As a result, this article hits the hearts of many Chinese who have not returned home or have returned home. Some people say, this article says his heart, this is the reason why I do not want to return to the country.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
Third, to go home to go abroad, but to go abroad is to go home.
I believe that no one will think when they go abroad, they are a lifetime stay abroad, at first always think about how good it is abroad, finally go out, finally can achieve their own dream.
From the beginning of what is not adapted to slowly discover, the original foreigner's chicken is so delicious, the original cheese is so delicious, the original pizza can also be served as dinner. At first I felt that there was no one abroad, like a big country, stillness, then suddenly I felt that it was so comfortable to be quiet. In order to see more to find acceptable things, such as let the child marry foreigners, or marry yourself, married foreigners.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
I used to feel very lively in China, but now I feel a little bit unaccustomed to returning home. It is true, however, that for those who have not returned home for a long time, China is just like another planet, so there is also a lot of homecoming.
I was very excited to return home for the first time. I thought there were 10,000 things to say, 10,000 missed friends wanted to touch, 10,000 places wanted to go.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
However, after returning to China, I found that there was not so much to talk about, and I said that I thought they might not understand it, that the friends I missed were no longer the original friends, and that my best friend had become someone else's best friend. Suddenly I couldn't find the place I wanted to go, because it might have been torn down.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
If the family had a child who grew up abroad, it might be even more difficult to adapt. Usually they are abroad, because there is no language barrier, everything can be done, and when they arrive in China, they can't do anything, as if their IQ has dropped suddenly, and they wish that even other people could get fake money for them.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
It seems that the world is farther and farther away from me, want to go back, but do not have that courage; do not go back, why there are still some concern and unwilling. So it seems to gradually discover: return to the country has become a real go abroad, but abroad has become home.
With domestic world estrangement is more and more serious, and domestic friends contact less and less, more and more do not have a common language, domestic news more and more lazy to read … . Even speaking, feel that many words of Chinese has been very difficult to remember, or a foreign language can be spoken.
When the overseas Chinese returned home, they found themselves as "the bottom of the society"! To return to China is like going abroad, and the Chinese are helpless in their hearts.
But watching their parents get old, there is always a sense of guilt in their hearts. Just, first of all, first continue with the present life, and then look at it …
But at this point, the end of the old age.