"I really did not think that he could do such a humiliating thing, he is really ashamed of being a Chinese!"
On the phone, Ms Ding told journalist today in Melbourne about a scene she had witnessed on Sunday, which embarrassed all the Chinese who had heard of it.
Ms Ding, who has been in Melbourne for 11 years, is now a mother of two children living in the Chinese district of Box Hill,.
Last Sunday afternoon, Ms. Ding sent her baby daughter to a birthday party for a local classmate in class.
The birthday celebration was at Box Hill's swimming pool, Aqua Link, and the kids had a great time in the pool. However, while everyone in the leave pool was about to come in and blow out candles to eat cake, the accident happened.
(Aqualink Boxhill internal)
"at that time, a Chinese man pushed his son from my side into the ranks of the children and urged him to go!" Get in there! " Ms. Ding told journalist.
Ms Ding was very confused because she clearly remembered that all the children at the party were wearing purple bracelets and that there was only one Chinese child in the class. The boy, who was promoted by his father, did not wear a bracelet, nor was anyone present to know him.
(Aqualink Box Hill's party label bracelet, from the government official file in Baima City)
Watching the strange child mingle into the crowd at the urging of his father, line up into the pool room, and even "sit in grandeur at the birthday table of children who do not belong to him," She also asked her master for a bag of cooked food intended for 20 children in her class. "Ms. Ding couldn't help it."
(Aqualink Box Hill's party house, from government, Baima.)
She reminded her father that it was the activity of children in the same class in a school.
"as a result, he replied to me in fluent Mandarin:'my son is playing with them! Come in, what are you afraid of eating together? "Ms. Ding recalled."
Ms Ding told journalist, Melbourne today, that birthday children had booked a party for 20 people and had staff at the door of the event room to check their heads. The child mixed in, which meant that an invited child had been shut out.
And this, obviously, is not a matter of splendor.
Soon, the parents of the master's local found the uninvited father and son, so they came courteously to ask the Chinese father and son leave.
But what is even more embarrassing is that they are unmoved and stay in the house!
Ms Ding told journalist Melbourne today that it may be because her children don't want to be upset on their birthdays, and that their parents are somewhat helpless. "after a while, they brought in the staff of the swimming pool, and the three staff said to the Chinese father for a moment before they were invited to leave!"
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"Oh, my God! So that we Chinese people's face! " Back home, Ms. Ding still can not help, sent a Time line, "really good angry!" Children are ignorant, adults teach, this is a small advantage, such a black sheep to overseas Chinese face all disgraced! "
(screenshot of the Time line circulating in Melbourne's social app circle)
"the man was about medium build and had a lot of cupping marks, about 40 or 50 years old," Ms. Ding recalled.
"if you don't understand other people's party rules, but I have reminded him to do so, obviously for the sake of mixed food," Ms. Ding said.
"in fact, the food is just chips and so on, it is not worth the money, the key is that the master's father later said to me, 'That is so funny! 'that tone made me feel like I was scolding us Chinese.' Mrs. Ding sighed.
"it was humiliating that all the people were scolding me after I told Time line about it. Of course, most Chinese are still very good, very low-key, "Ms. Ding concluded."
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