Many students who study abroad will be asked what they have learned and what they have gained over the years. English? diploma? In fact, there are two things to learn: the ability to survive in places that no one knows of in any country; and the mundane mindset that a well-known car mansion can no longer shake its willingness to take a bus every day to pursue a simple dream. These two are enough to benefit a person for life.
With the marketization and materialization of studying abroad, as well as the low age and local luxury of domestic students, the word "studying abroad", which is supposed to symbolize academic, well-known schools, freedom, distance and so on, has been removed from the shrine. Some people still believe that studying abroad is a broad field of vision, academic enhancement, promotion of the high ground; others tease that studying abroad is just a mixed literary recruitment.
You did not go to study, why say I study abroad is useless!
Everyone has to go through this stage, see a mountain, want to know what is behind the mountain, maybe over the back of the mountain, you will find nothing special, looking back, you will think this side is better. "- < Evil and West poison >."
Those who cross the mountain will say to those who have not, but behind the mountain. But after all, a lot of people have never climbed the mountain.
After staying in school, you seem to be qualified to exclaim "but so". You know, some people don`t know all the time. You see, there are a lot of people who don`t see them all their lives.
Don`t you need to learn how to rent a house, assemble furniture, cook, handle bank water, electricity and gas network bills, learn to drive, get married and have children, and take pictures with friends everywhere? If you don`t go abroad, you can`t learn anything. Have you become industrious? can you do anything that can only be done abroad?
Foreign students across the river to the sea, mountain, holiday and family apart, self-exiled to thousands of miles away, spent a lot of money, exactly for what?
As Gandalf told Bilbo Baggins in the Hobbit:
The world is not in your maps and books ……When you come back, you will not be the same。
The world is not in your maps and notes. When you come back, you`re different from each other.
This is a period, any time in retrospect, will be smiling at school experience. What attracts me most when studying abroad is infinite possibilities.
You did not go to study, why say I study abroad is useless!
You don`t know where you`ll be in a few days, years. And knowing what it means to be truly powerful and calm..
Why is it that the two people who love us most in the world are around us, but we still have to leave them. Parents are in, not far away. Of course I don`t want them to sit in front of the computer for hours waiting for us to say a few words because of the damn jet lag. I didn`t want to be surprised to find that they had more white hair and deeper wrinkles every time I met, and that the warm old house, which had always been covered by the wind and the rain, had become empty.
All drifting people are to one day be able to no longer drifting, can protect the family. Only after such a torment, such a seemingly futile effort, can we understand the origin of what kind of thing. Human life is short-lived, you can`t experience all the wonderful, learning and experience itself is to help you sort out the wonderful things you have never experienced.
Think of that very surging old saying: read thousands of volumes, walk thousands of miles.
Studying abroad is more than studying in class.
Foreign education, for those who have never had contact, can greatly broaden their horizons and learn to brainstorm and make constructive questions at any time. Now universities in the country are starting to encourage questioning, but many students are questioning questions for themselves. This is just another form of obedience, "obedience to the requirement to question you."
Never think of yourself as "absolutely right" for the probability that anything is so clear that you may be wrong. This is the result of academic training in foreign universities, but also the result of experience. Less frivolous, all things to do well, believe in professional power, everyone to do their job, the odds of laymen are very small, constantly arbitrary, reckless. After all, you don`t know the law better than lawyers, and you don`t know how to catch bad guys better than cops. Respect thinkers, artists, industrialists, people in various positions, and the results of their efforts, success or failure. There has never been a bronze statue of a full-time critic in human history.
Chinese culture emphasizes that everyone is a member of social relations and is deeply connected to others. Everyone is judged, everyone is judged. But in Western society, a person is a member of social function, a person`s work and his private life can be completely separated.
Westerners emphasize the independence of the individual in the collective, and the Chinese emphasize the connection of the individual in the collective. As a cultural liberalist, Westerners are generally "not easy to judge" others. People who don`t respect others are annoying in western culture. Respect for others generally includes: not complaining, not affecting others, not troubling others, not forcing others to accept their own views, not easily judging others, and so on. At the same time, don`t plagiarize, because it means the beginning of your failure.
In China, most parents want their children to study well. After that, they have a career, a family, a car and a room. This kind of life is the life they deserve, only success, but lack of tolerance for all kinds of other life. Always try to use their own values to influence the lives of their children.
In particular, judging other people`s right or wrong by a majority, collective value, this may also be a reason for lack of imagination and innovation, just want the same, do not differ, strange thinking was killed early. People who want to live differently have a lot more pressure at home than abroad, to resist all kinds of secular pressures, in foreign countries, you will find that there are so-called strange people too many, everyone`s life is different, everyone is strange, so there will be no strange people.
Similarly, in love, foreigners do not care about other people`s eyes at all. A lot of love is incredible in the eyes of others, but they are fearless.
You did not go to study, why say I study abroad is useless!
Study abroad is also the same, there are many choices and faces.
Some foreign students open air-conditioning, in the bright light of the room, playing the game, who knows whether to become a world-class professional players, they are also studying abroad; Some people in the extremely prosperous, extremely diverse flower world, eyes squealing to buy for themselves, or panting busy purchasing agents, they are also studying abroad; Some are busy meeting different interesting people, participating in parties and activities with various themes, feeling the brilliance of a city, they are also studying abroad; Some busy in the library looking at different materials and books, stepping out of the sun, back in the moonlight. They are also studying abroad.
After all, life is an individual journey, I do not know where to study abroad. In just a few decades, there is no need to waste it in getting approval from people who have nothing to do with it.
Studying abroad will also make you truly feel that you are Chinese, and that when you go abroad, you will find the traditional values of China particularly touching, will cherish the human sentiment in Chinese culture very much, and think that the Chinese people have a kind of bearing on humiliation as usual. Always to live, the moving spirit of life, and the importance of family and family.
This is a natural emotional connection that keeps you in sync with Chinese information and still perceives that many things that originally happened on the land of Shenzhou are closely related to you.
Study abroad has never been a unified definition, everyone`s study is also life, is unique, exactly what to decide on their own. See how you can handle it yourself. Wherever you go, what you are, your society is. What you do, you stay and learn what it looks like.
Studying abroad lets you see a larger world, want to stay, want to go home, want to move forward, no matter what choice, all have to pay efforts. After trying hard, there is no guarantee that it must be better than others.
Go abroad, just more insight, more options, maybe this is the meaning itself.
