What do parents usually do when children make mistakes in China? Education, and strict care? Or is there a problem, making up for the sale of a house for the child? Let`s see what foreigners do.
In Missouri, a father named Paul Spensberger reported to the police his 17-year-old son, Andrew, because his son had a girl, nude photos., on his phone.
Here are the pictures of the father and the son.
The sunshine handsome son, the kind and lovely father, is it seen from the photograph is a pair of good feelings father and son?
But in fact, son Andrew is a troubled youth, father Paul said the son is usually improper behavior, often steal, so far the father did not worry less.
Recently, father Paul in order to discipline his son Andrew, confiscated his phone, inadvertently found in his phone two photos of naked girls! In the United States, possession of children`s porn products is a felony.
Paul felt the situation was serious and asked his son why he had such a picture, Andrew said: this is a child of a girlfriend`s relative`s family, because he owes money to others and needs to be paid back, so he is ready to sell the photos to students suspected of paedophilia for $350.
If it was in China, all the parents might be well-versed educated sons, but the American father, who called the police directly, sent Andrew to the police station!
Local police arrested Andrew on charges of "possession of child porn products" and, if convicted, Andrew would be sentenced to four years in prison.
In custody, most Chinese parents will have to bail Andrew, for just $10,000, but the American father refused because he had to pay his son to pay for his wrongdoing. Only then will he find his way back. But at the same time, his father, Paul, also explained, as the court explained: he believes that Andrew only intends to sell photos and has no special feelings for young children; he also believes that there are people in school who are willing to spend money on photos with him.
Despite the fact that Paul reported his son, Paul said he was suffering, but he had to do so in front of the fact that he was a parent who didn`t care for his own children, and that he had to do so in the face of the fact that he didn`t care for his own children. His wife complained about Paul, who feared that Andrew would really be jailed for "paedophilia," which would not only be bullied in prison, but would also affect the child`s life.
Even so, most Americans think their father is doing a good job: think of the girl in the picture and her family! The father is worthy of our admiration for being able to put himself in the shoes of others. Now his father won`t put him in jail, someone will send him to prison sooner or later.
There is a great difference between Chinese and American methods of education for children, especially after children make mistakes, small mistakes, Americans are used to encouraging comfort, but big mistakes, when it is time for the police to come forward, should let the police come forward, and the Chinese, Small mistakes are often scolded and criticized, but big mistakes, often used to tolerance, which way do you think it is good.
