The family has giant baby, netizen unexpectedly lets study abroad circle to pay for.
Recently, just over Final`s News is lying in his home, almost fell by a big black pot fell off the wall of the wall, these years, even some people say that our foreign students are waste wood rich second generation.
Say we have mines in our family and do not know the plight of the people. Even more, even said that foreign students are like this, in foreign countries can not mix out to return to the country, after returning to eat and die, and finally rely on parents to have a bite to eat.
So News went to the Weibo search, there is really such a article called: # study abroad 2 years lost 2 million #. After reading the whole article, the resentment in the heart of News slowly turned into helplessness, one is helpless the experience of this foreign student, the other is helpless Chinese people`s colored glasses for overseas students.
In fact, the story of the Chen Yu student is not complicated. In short, he went to New Zealand to study for two years, but he couldn`t even get his pre-graduation certificate when he returned home. Its only achievement is to spend up to 2 million of the family`s savings, and even after returning to the family to feed.
At the sight of words such as "foreign students" and "losing light", the keyboard men and women danced like the New year`s Day, and even some comments gave the impression that he had not even finished reading the article before shoot.
Originally, it was only a simple example, and everyone discussed it and took it as a warning. It was just that there were so many people who liked to join the crowd and put the gun in the circle of studying abroad, watching the comments of the Internet friends. News is really going to worry about the last few hairs on his head.
Let`s look at how these cyber snipers are targeting the target with precision:
Sometimes really feel very helpless, also do not know when the circle of study became a special group, special to some people to spare no effort to analyze, to smear.
Partial generalizations seem to have become the norm, not to mention, the formation of this case and studying abroad is not directly related.
The circle of studying abroad is in the dark, who knows that family education is the culprit behind it?
As a matter of fact, I have mentioned the experience of this student just now, but in fact, he does not have much to do with his appearance as a student studying abroad. If you understand the environment in which you grew up in the morning Yu, you will know that spoiling is the key blow to destroy him.
When Morningyu was very young, his parents divorced because of their disagreements, and the mother, a strong woman, had no time to accompany or care for the young children, so the burden of companionship and cultivation fell to his grandparents.
Since Chen Yu`s parents divorced early, his grandparents felt a debt to this family, which naturally turned into a special favor for Chen Yu.
His mother, however, was exaggerating, because she was too busy with her work to accompany her son, but in her mind, all she could do was to give all her material satisfaction. Whenever a son asks for something, he asks for it again and again.
All in all, mother is sorry for you, but mother has money, can buy you stars, buy the moon, this has been 8012 years, this kind of educational thinking has not been out of date. He died early in the morning!
But from the point of view of Morningwoo, when did someone come into his heart and listen to his heart?
Whether it is introverted, school is excluded, no friends, or adolescence ignorant, sentimental, no one can understand and talk, gradually, will inevitably lead to their character of isolation and disagreeable.
Naturally, poor academic performance, bad popularity will become the label of the morning Yu.
At this time, the cliffs of the last push appeared, this is the mother`s friend`s words, "not good grades, send abroad will be fine." -.
Playing games computer configuration can not keep up, then said, "Mom, to change the computer, give me 10,000 yuan." What`s more, Chen Yu often felt unable to stay in New Zealand and bought a ticket home.
According to statistics, he spent more than one hundred thousand yuan a year on the road. In this way, 2 million is really not much.
It was not until Morningyu had been abroad for two years that his mother realized that it was time for her child to come back and that he was not fit to study abroad.
But after returning home, his mental state is still depressed, after a year, it is still eating, sleeping, playing games. Even when he was playing the game, grandma fed him food!
In News`s view, he just moved his own Internet cafes from home to abroad and moved back home.
Even his mother tearfully says that career success does not mean the success of family education, for which she has unshirkable responsibility.
Studying abroad in Australia is not as simple as it is said in the mouth.
Having said so much, although News is deeply sympathetic to Chen Yu`s experience, what he has to say is that his self-neglect, his closed heart behavior, the real trigger is the failure of family education, but also the result of self-righteous parents and families. In this regard, studying abroad does not need to bear the blame.
At first, when we heard that relatives and friends wanted to study abroad, it was full of envy, and even for some people who regarded it as a showcase, our hearts were full of disdain and contempt.
But when we are ready to go on the road of thorns, we will understand that studying abroad is not as simple as it is said in the mouth.
Even when they come abroad, they will realize that the so-called "rich second generation", which is profligate at will, is just a case in point. Who knows that after spending money, they will also face emptiness?. And in such a study abroad society, more key words is not profligate and pleasure, but efforts and overcome.
Most of us are not rich second generation, even many parents in order to provide their children to study abroad, to save their own food and clothing, can save. They are likely to have to work several times as hard as others to fill the gap, narrow the gap and allow children to concentrate on their books.
If we look at ourselves, many people must have experienced reaching out from their clothes, opening their mouths for dinner, and becoming a comparison of goods, buying only food materials that are almost overdue, or in order to reduce the pressure on their parents, take the initiative to take up several jobs, and even some people. Work in black, just to earn more, so that parents can save a little less.
But everything is not only here, speaking of studying abroad is the most difficult, in addition to the body hurt, more is the heart!
News believes that we are surrounded by academic pressure, even from social pressure. After nearly 20 years as a parent`s baby, you will find that it is the baby who is independent and free, and after the library brushing nights, internship or part-time sharpening is called the baby, the love of life, the fear of life is the baby.
How many people come overseas with confusion and helplessness, live in the best environment their parents think, and how many times can they feel the superiority of overseas?
When it was reported on the news that foreign students had committed suicide due to depression, News felt a pain in his heart, which seemed as if he was in a deep quagmire and had no place to ask for help, and he was powerless to feel through his whole body. Even some people will feel that if they did not make it through, the leave world may be their own.
Studying abroad is really not so simple, it can not be determined by a report card or the face of parents and families. What needs to be considered more is not the child`s achievement, but the child`s thinking. Study abroad this road, walk well will be the help of life, can not walk well, he will not only be the resistance of life.
All this is reality!
Keyboard chivalry irresponsibly past, can the students of foreign students to touch and roll over, can be right to their parents to redouble their efforts? If they can do not forget their original ideals and aspirations and walk a long way, should we give them the minimum understanding and respect?
In Australia, studying abroad is not just studying abroad
Why do we choose Australia
Having tasted Australia`s bitter and sweet, we can see that Australian students have different personalities. We come here with different goals, accompanying each other and snuggling up to each other.
Some are for Australia`s rich educational resources, hoping to improve themselves by studying abroad; others are fond of Australian customs, natural scenery, working and saving money to travel the continent; others love local policies and living environment, and prepare to emigrate overseas. But the only thing that doesn`t change is that too many people teach us to live an optimistic life and live in the sun!
Whether it`s going to work together after class, deliver takeout, or go to the library to review and do exercises at night, or work together with roommates to solve the small mistakes in life, it`s also like a holiday drive camping, a mirror to the sky to count the stars. These are memories that we will never forget in our lives.
This is our study life News Jun has such a good friend A, she was a famous American college graduates, in the students decided to enter the community, she resolutely decided to come to Australia for postgraduate studies. Asked why, she said with a smile that work is for survival and that she comes to Australia for life.
After meeting the prosperity of the developed countries and the unique American culture, Australia became her greatest desire for life, nothing else, just to broaden her eyes and feel the taste of life under different cultures.
In addition to doing exercises in three or five friends` libraries, she usually does some part-time work as a travel fee. Of course, tasting food is also one of her interests. In short, her own personal experience and enjoyment of life is her biggest goal.
When it comes to studying abroad, it is a good opportunity for many people to find an immigrant country.
Small B is one of the immigrant-oriented international students, after seeing the United Kingdom and other European countries, he chose Australia as the destination of immigration. Study abroad may be a few years for those who do not want to emigrate, but for small B, this is the beginning of a happy life for decades to come.
Australia`s simple and simple folk style, paradise-like natural scenery and weather, as well as rich and diverse but infinite harmony between the local and local customs, are the reasons why Little B chose Australia. After studying in Australia, he became more convinced of this.
Immigrant country, Australia is his future home!
3 this is the existence of "studying abroad giant baby" that can not be ignored, but it is not the definition of our life. We will not eat and die like that with the idea of "sick studying abroad," and we are more likely to work hard to earn money. It is used to open up vision, immerse life, experience Australian life in different ways and the meaning of life.
We will not feel how good we *, because we know that the strong people are one step at a time, towards the more cattle * people try to approach, and then closer!
Nor do we feel how bitter we are * because what we do now will be the most proud mark of our lives, making money and spending money, feeling that enjoyment is just a way to broaden our horizons, not why keypads point to our noses for scolding.
News Jun believes that our overseas students will use their own actions to prove to you that we are not overseas waste wood at all!
Conclusion bitter, we can eat, but pot, we absolutely do not memorize!
