Who could have guessed that overseas students had become the army of abortion abroad.
A recent data from Marie Stopes Australia, an Australian reproductive health consultancy, reveals an alarming phenomenon: more than 4000 students have abortions each year, many of them Chinese.
A Melbourne-based clinic offering abortion also says it receives at least one student a day to consult with aborted students. An earlier study at the University of Adelaide in Australia found that as many as one in three abortion patients in maternal and child health hospitals are international students from abroad, and the vast majority are Chinese students.
The high abortion rate among Chinese students is not only in Australia. Do you think this is the case only in Australia? Random search, other countries and regions of the Chinese students abortion situation is also shocking.
In New Zealand, for example, Chinese and ethnic Chinese, in addition to being at the top of the list, have far higher abortion rates than others: about 3 per cent higher than Maori and about 24 per cent higher than white.
A previous data from the University of Auckland also said: in 2015 alone, there were 2480 Asian abortions in New Zealand, with the vast majority of Chinese living in New Zealand for less than five years, while Chinese students studying in higher education in New Zealand. Is the main force of abortion.
For example, in Portsmouth, England, the city known as the worst-hit area of teenage pregnancy, Chinese students have also been frequently mentioned, and even because of the remarkable increase in the number of Chinese students who have asked for abortion. Once aroused the local city government and the national health department concerned department attention.
Why do most of the women who have abortions are Chinese?
I don`t know when there will always be such a group of people around us (of course, a small number of them) who worship foreigners and try to stick them up as long as they have a foreign face. On the way to see foreigners will go up to take pictures, and then send a Time line to show their own "elegance"; Or, to be able to speak to the foreigners, feel their own honor.
At the same time, in the land of our country, also began to appear more and more foreign garbage, some foreign garbage arrived in China, suddenly became God.
Be able to fall in love with foreigners is superior to others, can marry foreigners is pheasant become Phoenix?
Two years ago, for the first time, I saw an unbearable scene in the social app Time line of a female classmate: the initiative of a Chinese girl to throw herself into her arms. In this female classmate`s Time line share, all is to the foreigner "flirts" oneself extremely happy, the speech is filled with the superior person`s limitless light.
And when the friends around him persuaded him to respect himself, everyone was joked: "A bunch of buns, jealous that I have foreigners chasing." And as for her relationship with the white people, we don`t know about all the obscure surprises in the rumors, but we deeply remember that she shared a conversation on Time line with a white man asking her to spend the night. She showed great pride in it.
Later, I investigated how foreigners hook up with Chinese girls with social app. First of all, it must be clear that in Western countries, local people use basically Facebook, Whatsapp and other software, except for special business and Chinese learning needs, few people will use social app,. Therefore, "a large number of foreigners through social app flirting with Chinese girls" is a very strange phenomenon. So I opened the "people near by" in social app, and the truth came to light: we can see that in "people near by," almost all of them are foreigners, and all of them are men. In subsequent surveys, we also found that most of these people are "like the Chinese girls" under the guise of playing with the "indiscreet" Chinese girls.
And in their words, Chinese girls have a more "professional" nickname, "Easy girl," which, as the name implies, means "a good girl." For this phenomenon, we can say more directly: foreign garbage is targeting through social app, hunting Chinese girls.
We are not saying that all girls are like this, most of them are very self-respecting and courteous, but we must also see that those girls who have identified themselves as "white, high-end, high-end" from their bones are endlessly burying their humble souls. So that on a global scale, the formation of a "Chinese girls good at the hands" of the bad atmosphere.
In collecting relevant information, the author saw a video on the US video pipeline: "foreigners and Chinese boys on the street accosted test, Chinese girls how to choose?"
In the video, both Chinese boys and foreigners try to get the girl`s social app by chatting up, more than who finally wants the social app. As a result, under the same conditions as the basic environment and the number of trials, foreigners succeeded 7 times, and only a few refused, while the Chinese men succeeded only 3 times.
What`s even more embarrassing is that when testing the same woman, basically the result is that even if you don`t give both social app, Chinese men will be ignored, while foreign men will be politely rejected. Attitudes are quite different; What`s more, like this woman below, he threw cold water on the face of the Chinese man, but agreed to the request of the foreign man in a second.
Of course, these cannot be seen as absolute results, because there are differences in the way the two communicate. However, a few days ago, OkCupid, an international online dating network, released a set of data: Asian-American women mainly in China, although most of them love their own men, are influenced by social thinking and more factors. Asian-American women are also very fond of white men, and this phenomenon, compared with the rest of the world, is the most prominent.
In addition, data from Are You Interested, a foreign dating software, also point to this: Chinese women worship white men in a high proportion.
To put it simply, it can be understood that, in addition to the Europe and America indigenous group of women, the hottest thing about white men is women in East Asia. The East Asian countries are also the Eastern Paradise in the eyes of Western men. In this regard, many overseas Chinese comments that: Europe and America for Asia`s spiritual colonization, has never disappeared. And looking at our current China, such a conclusion, can not be overstated.
Life here advised all girls to study abroad or life must be self-loving, do not worship foreign.
The backwardness of sex education in China
Anyway, aren`t Chinese students aware of the negative impact of unwanted pregnancy on themselves, so why play with fire?
The reasons for the high abortion rate among Chinese students are almost identical to those given by foreign researchers and university teachers: China`s sex education is too backward.
A research director at the University of Adelaide has found that most students have become more sexually active since they arrived in Australia, but their sexual knowledge is so poor that they don`t even know how to use contraception. Some students even have a similar fallacy: "I hear that contraceptive is bad for your health, and you can`t get pregnant again after eating it."
"can I ask a doctor about sexual health? They can take care of this? "
Portsmouth University, because of the increasing number of abortions among Chinese students, specially printed a batch of leaflets in Chinese to provide Chinese students with an introduction to emergency contraceptive methods after the event, as well as the right channels for free and confidential contraceptive services.
All of this may explain the lack of sex education for Chinese students, but is that a strange question? It doesn`t seem strange.
Remember, not long ago, the Beijing normal University children`s sexual health education in this event. After a primary school parent in Hangzhou had finished reading the textbook, she posted on Weibo that she had "read the whole book red-faced" and severely criticized the book because it contained a lot of explicit sexual organ images of men and women; Parents and children discuss open-ended sexual topics; educate children that homosexual love is as normal as heterosexuality.
After a round of argument, the school had to withdraw the normal textbook. Even now, our parents still talk about sex change, not to mention when we were kids.
An article published in New York Times by an international student at Princeton University Li Yanzhe may give us some answers.
What do you mean in this article called < make love? In his personal experience, Li describes some of his feelings about the difference in sex education between China and the United States after he arrived in the United States.
In his first week at Princeton University, his dormitory counselor, a junior, called them to her room with 20 men and women. At the end of a routine speech, the counselor gave them each a condom. And a sexual Health and Safety Manual, "you`re the sexiest person who doesn`t spread venereal disease," detailing the safety measures to be taken in the event of sexual behavior.
At that time, Li Yanzhe was really shocked and confused. As soon as he communicated with some foreign students who came to the United States, he discovered that the situation they encountered was similar, and the dormitory counselors basically explained to the students the safety measures they needed to take in carrying out the sexual behavior. And there will be a small bag in the hallway with condoms in it.
Some of the more awkward counselors will even write down the URLs of several adult websites directly on the small blackboard, saying that it is a good thing to share with everyone.
Indeed, sex education began early in the United States, and students were quite open to talking about sex in their dorm rooms. In contrast to China, the situation is different.
As a young generation of foreign students, we should not only attach importance to the issue of sex education in the next generation, but also pay attention to the knowledge of sex that is applicable to us now, not to be shy about sex, but to be responsible for our own physical pleasure and safety, and to talk about sex healthily. We should not only go home and follow the customs, but also learn to protect ourselves.
It is not easy to study abroad, do not add yourself a knife.
