In China, sometimes see children crying in the street, and then murderous parents yell, finally the child with tears silently grieved.
In this case, passers-by should not interfere more than one more glance.
But in Ad, a six-year-old mother was charged with denouncing her child in public.
Adelaide`s Krechelle Carter, 27, wrote on her blog:
She was ashamed of denouncing her seven-year-old, Sylus,6, Noah, four-year-old twin Paige, and Olivia,2-year-old Bailey and one-year-old Emerson.
The mother claimed that every time she scolded her children, she was complained of.
"I met other parents or relatives, sometimes strangers, to judge the way I handled things," Krechelle said.
She said she tried to be polite and calm, but she felt that others thought she was a "terrible mother."
Krechelle, who has been married to her husband David for 11 years, said they had similar thoughts and frustrations.
"We have a very similar view of child development planning and believe that by using the right approach, we tell our children to be respectable and morally sound," she said.
"my husband had to speak harshly about the way our five-year-old was interrupting people.
Because he ran across the street after Christmas parade, my husband grabbed his arm. "
"the two young women behind us laughed and said," I wish I would never be a parent like that. " This is hurtful. They don`t know what`s bothering David. "
"it`s like a lot of times when you say to a child, `Darling, please don`t rock your sister because when you enter her private space, she feels hurt. How do you think it will make her feel?` Krechelle added.
"but the third education will be like,`if you touch your sister again, I`ll throw your iPad in the dumpster`."
Krechelle admitted she felt guilty about the way she spoke to her child because she had not handled the situation perfectly.
"I have six children, whether we are outside or at home, I have to make sure my children are reminded.
We have rules, but once we leave the gate, they always seem to have amnesia.
We`ll go one way and my kids will start fighting like they`re on the WWE stage.
I had to say, `Hey, be careful, kids.` my voice needs to be loud enough for all six to hear me. Then the children`s mischief began again. "
Krechelle admits that unlike other parents who do not want to humiliate their children in public, she believes that if her children are not condemned on the spot, the opportunity to educate them will be lost.
Krechelle lists three reasons:
"first: I don`t remember!
Two: I don`t have time to sit down and give them this lesson later.
Third: they are likely to become bad children. Shouldn`t I give them a hand? "
Krechelle said she would like to thank the public for their advice and not so high-profile.
"you know what praise and encouragement are, but I need to exercise my mother`s rights and get them to listen to me."
Krechelle says she`s doing everything she can to raise her six children.
She admitted that she had rules and chose to stick to them, especially when it came to road-related school pick-up.
"my rules may be different from other rules, but we can`t just support other parents` choices." Krechelle said.
"I`m sorry, people are such a judge."
"We all feel bad when we accuse our children, and we don`t know whether we`re right or just doing what we can.
"some mothers will look at their children and say & # 39; go ahead, daughter & # 39. In fact, you are her mother, and you have the right to tell your child what to do when you need it, "Krechelle said.
Australia has a lot of bear children, so parents must also have a headache. What kind of education to choose is also a big problem.
The protagonist of this article should belong to the straight type of character, so he will insist on his own way regardless of the eyes of others.
At home, many parents also choose to be reprimanded, so that children may be quiet faster.
But in Australia, if you don`t pay attention, it does lead to jail time and moral condemnation, and there is a big difference in parenting between China and Australia.
What did you think?
