In the world of family education, there is a great gap in the treatment of children's education and doting, before a ranking of spoiled children in the world felt the shock of the Chinese!
No. 5: "strict Model"-Japanese Children
Japanese parents are of the view that children can only grow in pressure and can be integrated into society in the future.
No. 4: "spiritual Model"-American Children
Training in at least one sport requires doing housework in order to get an pocket money and attending Boy Scouts and self-contained "spiritual training" courses from an early age.
No. 3: "relaxed Model"-Australian Children
Children in Australia live a little easier life than children in Japan and the United States.
Children's life is rich and colorful, according to their own interests to choose to engage in sports and talent learning, children's life is to be healthy sunshine, grow up to become positive, have the personality and thought of the person.
Second place: "Paradise Model"-the Children of several Middle East countries
Arab people's spoiled boys, not only family spoiled, but even clan-style.
Qatari, UAE, Saudi Arabia and other oil countries, boys, can be said to have lived in heaven since childhood.
Well-off boys from an early age were accompanied by a large number of maids, spendthrift, status revered.
But due to excessive patriarchal and religious traditions, the status of girls is much worse.
No. 1: "God Model"-Chinese Children
Chinese parents indulge their children in the first place in the world.
Most Chinese families have started the "421" and "422" God model-four old people, two adults, coddling one or two children together.
The child is the God of the family, the wind to the wind, the rain to the rain.
Milk powder to buy the best, early education center to go to the most upscale, clothing to wear world famous brand … Don't let the kids lose on the starting line!
Many parents comfort themselves when they spend all kinds of money for their children.
The so-called starting line here, in fact, is an anxious starting line.
How do Australian parents educate their children?
eat
The gap can be seen at the table, and parents try not to feed their children any more after they are taught to use spoons.
The child has begun to be responsible for himself, and he knows what he needs.
Australian children eat with an independent character.
Chinese parents behave like waiters at the table, and if there are old people at home, they are more like waiters at a hot pot shop in the sea.
The scene of parents chasing their children with bowls and coaxing picky children to eat more is common in China.
dress
All Chinese children are covered up and dressed like small buckets in winter.
Look at Australian children, often wearing less than adults, a dozen degrees or short sleeves, shorts, often barefoot, running in the yard at home.
Some Chinese parents believe that they cannot compare with Australian children in terms of their genes.
But Chinese parents themselves admit that well-covered children and Australian children are more likely to get sick and catch colds.
walk
Australia often sees little Australians who walk a few steps in the park and fall on the lawn, just toddling. Australian parents start encouraging their children to walk on their own, and there is often a big dog next to them to protect their owners.
However, not only Chinese parents, but also the elderly with grandchildren, are really unwilling to "give up", for fear of children bumping around, "the child is so small, how can you go so far!"
As parents, the psychology of spoiled children can of course understand that people are emotional, involving their own children, after all, is the flesh and blood how can not spoil not indulge?
But people also have to have a rational side, for the future of the child, sometimes it is really necessary to be rational, do not wait until the child is spoiled to regret.