I hope everyone can hold hands to love rather than compromise loneliness.
Final is over, friends can not wait to jump back to the embrace of the motherland.
Open the door to see the scene of long-lost parents have been rehearsed in the heart countless times.
But mom and dad said, "have been out so long, where are you?"
But it made us a little speechless.
Finally, we also reached an age when even mom and dad would hate to have no date.
But I do not know why studying in Australia, girls are always particularly difficult to get out of the single.
In fact, in normal video calls, parents have been giving us almost crazy hints.
"you see your school campus is so beautiful, how suitable for a little couple to take a walk or something?"
Shrewdness like me, how can I not understand this seemingly casual dialogue, behind the deep meaning.
But dad, mom, single or something, you really think I'm too picky? I don't want to!
In fact, as a single girl, sometimes very curious why I have been here so long to be alone, watching a lot of their friends have been out of the single, but they still have the double Eleventh Day holiday.?
Think again and again, circle sister decided not to run away!
Let's analyze it with you today!
"the reasons why we were single in those years," he said.
There are many women and little boys in the army of studying abroad, and it is not easy to compete intensely.
According to the Federal Ministry of Education of Australia in April 2018, the number of newly registered Chinese students in Australia has reached one hundred and sixty thousand, accounting for about 31 percent of the total number of students in Australia.
And in this vast number of Chinese students, more than 8000 more female students than male students!
From the data point of view, this can not help but let the hearts of female students feel more cool.
"I want to find a male friend with the same background as studying in Australia and having a similar cultural background. It's so hard! "
The "inequality" in the data has been heartbreaking, and what is even more painful is that!
Australia is an equal marriage country, which means that women in Australia not only have to face the extreme competition between each other, but also face the "challenge of lovely boys"!
Originally the number of high-quality boys around is limited, it is difficult to meet one, two, those high-quality boys often end up together.
How many single female compatriots, after witnessing this happy scene, all turned to see themselves fall into tears.
Women and boys are also the characteristics of Australian universities, and poor selection of majors is even more suffocating.
For us studying abroad, the school is undoubtedly the best petri dish for love.
Although it has long been known that there are more women than men, the ratio of men to women in colleges and universities is even more hopelessly suffocating.
According to data released by Australia's government in 2017, not only Chinese students, but also girls are the dominant force in Australian universities, accounting for 55.5% of the total number of students.
Like the Catholic University in Australia, known for its nursing profession, which accounts for the largest proportion of girls, women account for 72.3% of the total number of students.
Even the world's fifth-largest engineering major, the University of New South Wales, accounts for 46.1% of the total.
The state schools are as follows:
University of La Trobe-61.2%
Deakin University-59.7%
Monash University-56.5%
University of Melbourne-55.2%
RMIT University-48.8%
Swinburne University of Technology - 48.6%
With the exception of Swaben University and RMIT University, all the other schools have more than 50% female students!
In such an environment, you will face cruel competition even if you give up your obsession with Chinese boys.
And if the choice of the wrong major, the difficulty will be further increased.
The elder sister often sees a lot of business girls complaining, "our school is such a big business school, how the number of boys is not as many as the old high school in four classes of boys!"
"Don't let me get out of my way. I may stay, and I'm going to be impressed by the pretty little girl around me."
Maybe after entering college, it is a living picture I or a picture 2, from the moment the university and major has been preordained from the moment.
The ratio between men and women is too uncoordinated, no matter how attractive it is, there is no place to show it.
Differences in educational models, "blocking" many girls' opportunities to know the opposite sex
Australian universities basically carry out the "shift system", just like the cram classes we attended when we were young.
There is little communication in class, and after class each goes back to his or her residence.
Usually there is a real chance to meet heterosexual friends compared with the previous domestic high school junior high school, really a lot less!
Occasional conversations with heterosexual students can also be group discussions and group assignments done together in class.
(the lesson looks like the picture above)
And in Australia, the style of accommodation and domestic universities are not the same.
Basic students choose either to live alone or to rent a room with one or two friends.
Most friends usually go out with classes. They don't stay at home, learn, build, exercise, watch, play, and so on.
Before she went abroad, she often saw the English TV series: a lot of young men school girl went out to play together, together with party, together with the high footage.
But studying abroad in Australia, this scene is really difficult to achieve.
No more succumbing, no more making up.
After studying abroad, many students will feel their vision broadened.
Be more sure what you want or what you want more.
The same is true of finding the other half, and the demands are getting higher and higher.
You will feel that the opposite sex around you is not so consistent with your own standards.
And I am not willing to make do with it.
This seems to be the heart of many high-quality single women around the circle.
"I want to take it off, but I don't want to make it up to you."
Or there is a class of girl friends, in Melbourne too many beautiful and talented girls in the atmosphere, feel that they do not have a lot of bright spots, can attract the opposite sex place.
I think I'm not beautiful enough, not white enough thin enough, want to wait until I become almost perfect time to choose to try to single.
In those years, it was not that we were unwilling to dislodge, but that we did not wait until the right time to meet the right person.
Sometimes, being single is not because you are not good enough, but rather that you want to get a relationship that you really cherish, rather than choose a partner you are not so satisfied with.
Study abroad time passes very quickly, is more willing to leave the most beautiful time to the most right person ah ~
But I would like to remind you that if you really meet the heart of the ta, in the vast sea of people, please spare no effort to pursue.
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