A young man with nearly 100, 000 followers on a social media platform overseas announced leave, leaving messages. He deleted all his original videos from video website without leaving a cloud.
Overseas, a rich man with good taste and mission said an intriguing remark: alas, it is very difficult for the Chinese people to truly unite, and they are born to break up each other.
When I first came to Australia, I habitually wanted to know more friends, and I was keen to get acquainted in various circles, so those who had divided three or five into two met the friends who sold houses, the fellow villagers who sold insurance, and I felt that the moon was still round in my hometown. After all, people or compatriots ah, I would like to tell the heart of all the new friends, two nights a smearing buy a house, investment, wife also reminded me: "you do not understand the situation of real estate, how to do with the loan?" How's the Australian market? When I ask, I don't know, and I'm going to do it! " I said, "you are too timid and timid to make money. Besides, they are all Chinese. Why would they lie to me?" Later, when I was looking for some of my friends, some said, "I have changed my profession and I can't care about things before." some did not answer the phone at all, and some requested social app blocked. Only then did I realize that I had become poisoned by my fellow countrymen. Fortunately, it is not so deep.
Now I think back to what a friend of mine who had emigrated to Australia for 30 years said to me, there was no reason for that, but I was stunned at that time and did not listen to it:
"there is a hidden rule in immigration circles that you will gradually understand: mainland immigrants from Taiwan and Hong Kong, and new immigrants from old ones."
Recently, I listened to three stories and spilled it out quickly.
If I hadn't been cheated, I would have emigrated successfully.
"the immigration agency does not have a good thing, I wish they * Guangguang!", Shui Mei in a group in Western Australia to say good-bye to everyone, said the obvious with killing and emotional words, I personally wrote to her: "in the group talk or pay attention to," This is not good。 Intermediary also has good, can't beat all intermediary with one whip. "
The water sister told me her story in the original way.
Shuimei and her husband are definitely upper-class people in a second-tier city in the eastern part of the motherland. They live on the high level of the highest average price apartment in the city and each drive five hundred thousand cars. She says she is the top 10 Filipino domestic workers in this city. Just to give the child a high starting point in English. Every year the family will travel to the country, take a cruise, according to the day really what they want, but this man once saw the outside world, always grow to fly wings, so think of immigrants.
My friend's friend is in Australia, did a social app appraisal to the water sister, said: you this situation I help you to set up the employer guarantee. 1.2 million, a year, Bao Cheng!
If not, paid the second period of fees, my friend said to Shuimei, no problem, just wait to sign.
"you are ready to land. If you don't worry, I'll help you make house look, this house is also a price a day, early buy early benefit. "
Water sister and husband's heart, on the eve of the last round of house surge house, the car sold, the family flew to Western Australia. Warm-hearted friends asked about the water sister's financial situation, quickly within a month to buy the water sister house. Shuimei said that as soon as her eyes were blackened, her friend said to sign and pay for the payment. The couple went home and sighed:
"overseas Chinese are really of high quality, so they can do so many things for us!"
My friend said, with all my help, I call it "one-stop service" in our jargon, "help people to the end."
The old saying says: misfortune does not go alone, happiness is not equal to. When the house leaks, it often catches up with the rain.
The Shuimei family live in the big house, slowly familiarize themselves with their own city, and also slowly understand the origin and context of the house they bought: this is a very taboo house for Chinese, and no one has taken over for a long time, even so, The price paid by the water sister has also been higher than that of house over 100, 000 Australian dollars! The family is worried about house when the employer sends news:
They are going bankrupt and can't go on with their work, guarantee.
The warm-hearted friend was cut off. 'you 're too trusting, 'said her friend.' you should have asked me about him. He's not an intermediary, he's just a broker.
The water sister family immigrant dream broken, had to sell low price house, disheartened, ready to return home.
I spent a long time trying to convince her that not all agents were unscrupulous, but unfortunately they all ran into you.
She nagged like sister-in-law Xianglin: "I don't understand. Some people dare to do anything for money."
Since then, I no longer believe in any of my countrymen
Lao Luan is a friend of Brother Hu and a senior programmer. A few years ago, skilled immigrants arrived in Australia, where jobs were easy to find and wages dwindled, but some aspiring Lao Luan felt that he could not always work in a technical position all his life. He wanted to walk up and lean on his managerial position.
Lao Luan says China, where Indian immigrants are the majority, is mainly in charge of Australians, who have been burning in India for nearly a decade, while Chinese have not moved forward. Lao Luan is loyal to people, and the mass foundation in the company is good; the technology is solid, the most difficult bone colleagues in each project will think of Lao Luan, and the Shanghai colleague in the group will therefore send him the nickname "old egg"; Excellent language, although the English Xiangtan accent has been difficult to change, but the work of Lao Luan has been able to express, he also deliberately in a variety of meetings and conferences to let the company hear the voice of China up and down. All the signs gave Lao Luan enough confidence that he would always step into a management position, all he needed was to wait for an opportunity.
But he ignored precisely his most trusted mass base, the fellow countrymen of the same roots, sometimes stabbing him in the back.
When the department manager Gao Sheng left a vacancy, Lao Luan first introduced himself to HR and the relevant decision-makers. The department manager also spoke to Lao Luan after the farewell meeting, saying you could try a management position.
In the next month, HR's internal promotion and external air drop went hand-in-hand with an Indian and an old Luan, and the Indian key time gathered together and did not forget to tear up the platform when China was in a hurry. What Lao Luan didn't think of was that another Chinese fellow in the group was also thinking about this position, and after knowing clearly that he was hopeless, he chose to break up behind his back, not Lao Luan persecution's delusion. An Indian colleague played a recording at lunchtime to let Lao Luan understand the truth. It was a conversation recorded inadvertently by Indians on mobile phones while HR was in a group interview, in which he heard clearly the black of his fellow countrymen in vain. The effect of the blackness on the final appointment may only be clear to policy makers, but there is no doubt that Indians have come to terms with the Chinese infighting.
Lao Luan chose silence and serenity, a week after the announcement of the results by the fellow countrymen leave the company. Lao Luan said that after that he chose to keep a cautious distance from his compatriots, and he said, as a Chinese, there are sometimes unspeakable sorrows.
When someone wants to lie to you, he doesn't think you're not involved in the world.
A while ago, he met a Central Plains boy named Luo, who opened a home gift shop. He told me his story.
When he was in high school, his family found him high schools and host families in Australia through a domestic intermediary. He said, "since then, I have been tricked again and again. No one will think that my young ignorance will raise the muzzle of my gun by an inch," he said, "since then, I have been deceived again and again." None, they were all thinking about my dad's money, which always seemed to run out of money. "
Xiao Luo's father told the intermediary that he hoped to find a private school for his child. It doesn't matter how expensive it is. Eventually, Xiao Luo did go to a private school. Almost all of the classes in that school were like Xiao Luo's students from China, and after three years of high school, no great progress had been made in English. Luo said he can speak fluent Cantonese and almost chaotic northeast Chinese. He later learned that the school was run by several early Chinese immigrants, and it was indeed a private school, and had established good mutual promotion agreements with many domestic intermediaries, making a lot of money in the form of asymmetric information.
Ronaldo could also clearly describe the first time he walked into a host family to give him the house, the ubiquitous cockroaches, and from time to time he could see some flying crawling bugs that could not be named. Australian Chinese trusteeship agency introduced a Singaporean as the guardian of Xiao Luo, which costs nearly three times as much as his friends. Xiao Luo once thought of leaving, but the Singaporean threw a contract in front of Xiao Luo. The inequality treaty was written in black and white, unfortunately with the autograph of Ronaldinho's parents:
"if you terminate the contract early, you will have to pay one year's rent."
Ronaldinho put up with it for two years. On his eighteenth birthday, Ronaldinho rented and bought his own house. He said he still had no eye on it and was bought and sold in Chinese circles. He said the experiences could have been a novel. Xiao Luo said, after so many things, he grew up, and he summed up a sentence that I think is very useful:
You can't stop studying every day, because life always gives you lessons.
I asked Xiao Luo, you have been deceived like this, will you treat others like this? Luo weirdly smiled and asked me, "when you were a child, you were deceived by the world by your countrymen. What would you do when you were an adult?"
My back is cold.
The protagonists of these three stories happen to be old, middle, and young, and they have experienced love and death among their compatriots at their respective ages. Of course, there are their own ignorance, credulity, or childishness. But the heartache that these things bring to them will probably be difficult to dissipate for many years, and more importantly, they will use it as a negative example to their children, grandchildren, and shudder when they think about it.