Emojis are the same, Lao Mei's mantra also has a lot of hidden connotation.
How to correctly understand Lao Mei's mantra?
If you are judged "interesting" in your life, don't think that others really think you are "interesting", just like others praise you.
When you say something excitedly and the other person returns to you with a "interesting," it often means
1. This guy's not even listening to you.
two. This guy listened to you, but he doesn't want to hear it anymore.
3. This guy thinks what you think is exciting is Normal in his eyes.
4. This man makes a very interested look to keep you from saying it. The subtext is``You can shut up'' .
The above, big difference, welcome to fill.
TA, a writing class, advises us to say that if we really want to praise others for fun, change the word, such as the more popular "intriguing."
Say "do not blow black", the next must be black; say "no offense", the next must be offensive.
The wonderful thing about "No offense" is that "what I'm going to spray you next is not because of my emotional problems, but because objectively speaking, you really have a problem."
I don't believe the subtle difference between these two sentences of your product
"do you have no friends?" vs "No offense, do you really don't have many friends?"
As long as you say "No offense," how much Offensive you say later doesn't count.
When you say, "you write terrible," it kills 50.
When you say, "To be honest, you write terrible," there's a sense of reality that you've been struggling with for half a semester, but for your own good, I choose to tell you this fact, which everyone knows, which can't be covered up.
Although "Fine" and "Okay" mean the same, the emotional density of the former is much higher than that of the latter.
The feeling of "Fine" is that although I agree, I am not willing to, in short, unhappy, is the American want to refuse to welcome the final stubbornness.
For example, an IQ touching teammate said to you: last time Group Assignment rowing did not help, excuse me, please buy you a Hong Kong style morning tea?
At this point, it is a failure to say "OK", and the correct answer is, of course,
“Fine”。
There is "ten moves to refuse" in Chinese, and "Anyway" in the corresponding English.
The best thing about this "Anyway" is that it's a great opening to "ignore everything." it's a universal expression of "you sound logical, but I still think you're an iron wolf."
Think back, when you ask for help, does the other person just use the word "Anyway."? To refute you without saying a word?
So, the most affectionate breakup is, "Anyway, let's break up."
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This word can be said to be the last word every foreign student wants to hear at the interview company. The interviewer's "Hopefully I can see you again" can basically declare that he is not in the next round.
The essence of the word "Hopefully" is that "while rejecting you, you don't lose an upward positive feeling." after you are denied, you don't even know how to lose your temper.
So the next time someone wants to hold your thighs and want to sit next to you, try a "hopefully" to see how they react.
Are people in western countries more direct in speaking and doing things than Chinese? You're wrong.
The important thing must not come up to the point of view, must be 40 or 50 minutes after talking about the mountain, with an unremarkable "BTW" to lead to the topic of chat.
Don't underestimate "By the way". The most powerful thing about these three words is that they seem to be casually mentioned, but it is most likely a huge hole, in order not to die and dump the pot in the future, anyway, "I reminded you, you didn't pay attention to who you blame."
the last one
There's nothing to say. It's a high-level use for English expression of``abandoners'' .
For example, who wants to go home to finance and start a business after graduation, a "Good Luck" can basically predict his future trend, or who wants to chase which goddess, a "Good Luck" can basically judge that he is cold.
Said so much, just want everyone to remember at all times: Lao Mei's mouth is a deceitful ghost.
Don't trust the mantra of the American people easily, okay?