After staying in Australia for a long time, I got used to people coming, people going, and getting used to parting: every year, old friends leave Australia to return to Australia, and they also know new friends who come to Australia from home.
Some people say that there are many opportunities at home, family close, food is also too good than the Australian village, but some people take a spin around, or choose to go back to Australia.
So, after spending a long time in Australia, should I return home or not?
1. Joy and opportunity to return to China
Many people come home to stay with their families or to develop better on their career paths.
Indeed, being able to accompany your loved ones at all times is really reassuring;
Late-night beer crayfish, 24-hour takeout at any time;
Friends see you every day, Taobao buy every day;
No wallet to go out, even buy food can brush Alipay convenient life also let people's happiness brush up.
In the workplace, there are more opportunities at home, more room for development, the experience of studying abroad in Australia may also add to your work performance, on-the-job field to achieve self-worth.
However, many people in the late night began to think: I return, really do not regret it?
The moment the plane landed, I knew that I had embarked on a hard road.
In Australia, you will be happy to gain weight, in China, you will work hard to lose weight.
2. Anxiety and regret in returning home
Everything has two sides, and many people regret it after returning home, but it is difficult to live in Australia again.
The return is still a teenager, a little bad. After the return of a year is still a teenager, is really good.
According to statistics, in 2017, a total of four hundred and eighty thousand students returned home. Coupled with a steady stream of graduates in the country every year, the fierce competition can be imagined.
Some friends said that after returning to China, both in the community and in the workplace feel very unadapted, with a great impact on culture.
Working in a domestic company, overtime is the norm, without Banga you have to consider whether or not the boss doubts your ability;
At home, many people make friends with utilitarian heart, because there is a relationship only business opportunities, and in foreign countries is to do things first, the good cooperation will naturally become friends.
You think your international vision, is not approachable, you have those overseas work experience, in addition to not easy, but also to find their own position.
Although your English is good, Chinese is very common.
The advantages of the past can not even be seen as strengths, but all the weaknesses are exposed very thoroughly.
There are also many people say that returning to the country is the beginning of the "poor".
In Australia, a normal job is enough to live a good life, but at home, most people's wages are not high, even lower than prices and prices in first-tier cities.
Now that there are so many returnees, no one can guarantee that they can find good jobs when they return home.
In addition, many returning friends complain that they do not have privacy, because abroad, work is work, life is life, and in China, the two are difficult to separate.
At the same time, it also faces pressure from family members to be urged to marry and spawn.
My parents' traditional thoughts eroded my heart all the time, whether my job was stable, whether my income was sizeable, and that I should find someone to marry at my age. Parents always feel that if they don't get married, they are unfilial.
In Australia, we talk about the weather, about weekend plans, about where to travel;
In China, most of the topics discussed are work and housing, like planning many things ahead of time, such as not married already to consider the future of children's school district housing, under such pressure, not anxiety is difficult.
In addition, domestic environmental pollution, traffic jams, uneven quality of people and other social problems, may make the return of people in a moment regret.
Then look at the sky and go on.
Domestic changes are too fast, not too much time to see the day, no too much time to regret, there are a lot of things to be implemented.
After returning home, we are no longer a visionary. We all fell from the leisurely mid-air on the ground.
In other words, to return to the country, feel that life is more "real". Since choose to return to China, have made full psychological preparations, for their dream, those possibilities, struggle and chase. In the end, the besieged people wanted to go out, but the besieged people wanted to come back.
In fact, staying in Australia or returning home is a personal choice and no one else can control it.
No matter how elected, there is no good or bad.
No matter what country in the world, as long as you can live with the wishes of family and friends, it will be the best choice.