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Not long ago, a couple of Chinese and six-year-old son went to the United States and were repatriated... Not only that, a family of three has been on the news.
Why is that? Because the kid in this house is a bear!
After the family of three got on the plane, the children roared up. Next to a family of three is a Japanese Chinese boy, the child sitting next to the Japanese little brother.
During the flight, the children harassed the little brother endlessly.
The children couldn't sit down, chattering and jumping up and down. Probably see little brother is too gentle, the child simply punches and kicks to each other directly.
The little man took a few deep breaths and calmed his mood, and asked the child's father if he could discipline the child.
The child's father ignored him and allowed his children to continue fooling around.
After more than three hours, all the patience of the young man was worn out. The little brother could not bear to yell at the family.
It was a surprise that the parents reacted even more to the bear than the bear's children. Bear father through his own side of the son, straight up to pinch the little brother's neck, the two people began to fight!
Fortunately, the flight attendants advised in time to separate the two men! The stewardess also moved the father's and son's seats to the front row.
You think this is over. No, no!
Whether it's the right ending to teach bear children-bear parents are being run by someone else.
After disembarking from the plane, the bears' family was treated with the courtesy of FBI.
FBI. Yes, the FBI, the agency that often investigates spies on American TV series. They are responsible for protecting the security of the United States.
In addition, they were greeted by more than 20 people, including airport security, border security and so on. Isn't it scary? People who don't know what they're looking for are the most wanted criminals in the world.
It turned out that after physical clashes on the plane, the crew informed Los Angeles International Airport on the grounds of "threatening the lives of all passengers." Airport staff informed FBI. again.
Then there was the scene just described. When the plane arrived in Los Angeles, all passengers were asked to stay in place until the two sides of the conflict, the Bear and Brother, were taken away by police.
Because it was the father's first move, the U.S. Customs refused the family entry on charges of wilful injury and repatriated the family of three in the early hours of the next morning.
And the consequences of being repatriated may be. A family of three can no longer apply for exit.
At home, people will bear with the public bullying bear children, but other foreigners do not think so. This, inadvertently, has risen to the top of the airport case.
I don't know if you often hear words like this: "Children don't understand, don't worry about him." "he's young. Let him go."
Do you feel itchy but don't know how to refute it after listening to it? In fact, these are typical bear parents would say. Bear children's parents do not act, resulting in the bear children are missing the opportunity to be educated. Bear child is not guided correctly, grow up is bear adult, old bear is old bear old man.
There are unreasonable bear parents behind every bully child.
Children are in the nature of love, but parents' neglect of discipline can lead to uncontrollable consequences. Because all parents do not teach their children the truth, there are always people in society will teach him.
/ 02 /
Like this bear boy. Xi'an 11-year-old bear child, scratched 3 million luxury car. The question of whether or not to compensate has aroused heated discussion among netizens.
Car owners are also very helpless ah, resting in the car, he suddenly realized that someone is rowing their own car. As soon as he got out of the car, he was stunned, and his brand-new car was drawn deep into the long line. The powder was fresh and hot before it was blown away by the wind.
The 11-year-old, with something similar to a bit, devoted himself to carpooling. The owner hastened to catch him and called the police. According to the survey, this is the child's ninth car.
This time, he's not so lucky. The car is a Mercedes-Benz Carlson with a global limit of 999 units. The owner spent 3 million on it!
The father and mother of the bear responded to the police uncle by saying: our family is very common. We can't afford a car like this anyway, or you can lock him up and go to jail.
I really want to turn back a big white eye. 11-year-old children so many, why on your family can not control their own hands? Not because of your attitude! All bear children's parents feel that their children are the center of the universe, as if the world should revolve around them. But age can never be regarded as uncultivated capital.
We respect a man for his morality, not for his age. Bear children's parents lack even the basic ability to be parents, is to learn to teach children to be human.
They tend to preach to the children how to play a scoundrel. A child who grows up in such a family will grow up to become a new generation of rogue and teach a new generation of bear children.
I wish they had met a few more people who taught them to be human.
/ 03 /
Of course, not all bear children are so lucky. Some netizens said such a real case.
On that day, a large family had a dinner and drink in a restaurant. The bear children in the family did not eat well, and were jumping up and down in the restaurant to stir up and down.
The man at the other table held up for a long time and was finally unable to sit down. They bought a table of peanuts to deliver to the family's wine table. I hope the father of the child can take charge of the child. The drunken father had lost his mind, insulting the plain-dressed two and even overturning the peanuts they had delivered.
The two men had to give up communication and go back to their seats to eat. At this point, the bear child proves that there is no bear but more bear. He ran to their table and spat at Fish Filets in Hot Chili Oil, who had just come up.
Before paying the bill, one of the men warned the child's father: "you'd better be careful, don't go too far!"
Papa Bear shot the table at once and said, "I'll beat you up!" Someone on top of me is in a hurry to send you to prison in a minute. "
The words did not fall, a fruit knife directly into the bear father's chest. Then the screaming bear child was pressed into a spitting boiled fish bowl and choked to death alive.
After the investigation, the two men were identified as fugitives, both carrying a human life lawsuit. The reason for the tragedy was simply that bear children and father bear were killing themselves. We can see that the two men have shown enough patience in the process. But Papa Bear doesn't seem to know what to do with the baby.
He did not stop the noise of the child in time. He was overjoyed when the child spat in other people's food. If the child is lawless, he will behave better than the child. In this case, there is really no one to save them.
The so-called, is not reported, the time has not come. The Chinese old saying is not unreasonable, everything that should come will come. Parents do not give their children enough education, there are always other things to punish both sides. These costs may be painfully painful.
No one knows when these bear parents and bear children became the protagonists of the tragedy.
Perhaps life is less likely to run into murderers. But bear children are no less likely to go down the path of crime. Xiongzi for their own education default to pay the rate, but also not low.
/ 04 /
Long Ying-tai once wrote in the book such a flight experience, also related to children. She once boarded the plane and found herself sitting next to the mother and son.
A mother and two young sons. The eldest son is about ten years old and the younger one is five or six years old. At that time, she realized that the journey might not be too smooth. You know, two little boys on the plane can be the bottom of the sky!
As expected, as soon as the plane took off, the two children were excited and chattering.
Long Ying-tai sighed deeply, took out the headphones ready to cut off the noise. Before he had his headphones on, she saw the mother's face calm and gave her fingers a gentle shush to the two children.
And then it was like a miracle. The two naughty boys shut their mouths for a moment and sat down without saying a word out loud until the plane landed.
No one knew what the mother had done to educate the two active children. She managed to persuade them to keep quiet in public. We know that every child is naive and active, and there is so much excess energy.
But with a good education, they can do well as well.
Indeed, it is not that we have not met little gentlemen and little ladies. From an early age, they knew how to take care of other people's feelings, what is called accomplishment and respect. By contrast, the shunned and fearless bear children have been immersed in selfishness and bravado since childhood.
The gap between people can be seen from childhood. And it all depends on their parents. It is said that the parents are the first teacher of the child and the child is the second face of the parents. Without heavy makeup, upbringing can give them the most beautiful souls.
Some netizens, on a foreign flight, received a gift from a mother with a baby. It contains candy and mom's hand-made gadgets, plus a letter that says in a baby's voice: "I may be a little noisy during the flight, but I'll try to listen to my mother and be a good baby."
There is a mother who treats strangers so attentively, the baby should not grow up much worse. Because his mother was always telling him how to think about others.
There are also mothers who prepare countless cakes, yogurt and chocolates for their children. As soon as the child opened her mouth, she stuffed it in.
There are also mothers who smile and refuse when someone gives up their seats to their seven or eight-year-old son, and then the child learns to express his sincere thanks to the girl who has given up her seat: "Sister, my mother says I am a man. You can't bother anyone to give me a seat. "
There are also parents who, when they take their children to the cinema to make a noise about others, immediately take him out of the cinema and whisper to him, "you are three years old, you should be sensible, otherwise, you will become a nuisance to everyone."
The staggering child has learned to consider other people's feelings and apologized to his mother and father.
There is a classic question called "how difficult is it to destroy a bear child?" Every day, countless people suffering from bear children come up to answer questions and give likes.
In fact, the real difficulty is not how to destroy bear children, but how to wake up bear parents.
Taiwan writer Chang Tak-fen once said: in fact, raising a child does not require much skill. What's important? It's "bottom air".
What kind of gas is it?
It is the spirit of leading by example. Parents use correct values and strong information to tell their children what to do and what not to do. It is the base of tenderness and persistence. Parents insist on the right way to guide their children before the formation of their children's outlook on right and wrong. It's an air that never gets out of the way. It is in every small detail is not easy to neglect, but through a little bit of life to tell the child how to be a person.
No child is born right and wrong. There are no children who are born to hate people.
Recently, a video went viral on the Internet, where children kept hitting strangers in front of their shopping cart with their shopping cart, and the stranger poured a bottle of drink on the child's head in a rage.
It turns out that when strangers express their dissatisfaction with the mother of the child, the mother replied, "he is too naughty. Please teach him a lesson and teach him to respect others."
As a result, strangers are not welcome.
What the mother did was, in fact, a sign of accountability to her child. A thousand words of gentle reproach is better to let a child see a real society. So the mother taught her bear children in such a clever way.
Some people compare children to parents' kites. How parents lead, determines how children fly. At the end of the day, the child is testing the power of his parents regardless of whether he is vacating rather than half a meter away.
Fly a kite well. If you don't take it seriously, someone will cut it off for you. Teach the child well. If you don't teach seriously, someone will help you educate him in the future.
The best wealth you can give a child is to teach him to be a good person.