Most Australian cities don't have so many restaurants, not so busy nights, not that big chinatown, not so many shopping mall, less developed transportation systems. In most Australia, people usually go off work early to have dinner with their families, and seldom eat out. Even if they get together with friends, they like to hold party. at home.
Most Australians enjoy driving to work in suburb, enjoying a quiet weekend, cooking and weeding.
Most of Australia, as calm as Europe, is conservative but free.
Most of Australia is full of traffic during the day and quiet at night. Yes, most of Australia is boring, boring and somewhat depressing. Even in big cities, you will find that most of the time, you are alone.
If you like to have someone with you every day, then Australia is not for you.
Here, you have to learn to cook alone, to eat alone, to entertain themselves, friends are not on call, because everyone is busy with their own business, no one will care what you do.
Even when you have something happy to celebrate, you may find it hard to tell if you're the only one who celebrates for you. As if after the final exam, I wanted to eat with my classmates, but suddenly remembered, here, there is no class concept.
You can say that such a life is lonely, or you can say that this life is very free. A friend told me that he had not spoken for a day until he came to class in the evening. Some friends also told me, driving out to play, driving for a long time did not see a person. Living in Australia requires a strong heart to deal with loneliness and emptiness from time to time.
At first, I'm not used to it. I think life in Australia is very different from what I thought.
A lot of friends say, you have a really good life in Australia, and friends together for dinner, travel. But there are few times when Weibo is deceitful and shows only the best parts of life. And the real life, most of the time I am stuck at home, alone.
If you record domestic life, you will find that domestic life is far more lively and interesting, both friends and entertainment will be much more.
In Australia, the circle of life is very small, the most familiar friends are always Asians. A person's life, can be facing the computer, from the morning to see the night. But it is such a person's life that you can learn how to enrich yourself and realize that a full life has nothing to do with others.
Enrich, does not need to accompany you every day to eat or chat, own one person to read before did not have the opportunity to read the book, also can be very substantial. Full, does not need to go out every day to party or meetings, their own online to read a variety of messages, can also be very substantial.
Domestic life, is a variety of you brought to the full. And Australia's life, is their own enrichment. Life, here, gradually shows its most true state. Here, you can wear fancy clothes, the most others look at you, but not finger-pointing. Here, you don't need to take the first place in the exam. You don't have to push yourself to find what a well-paid or decent job it is for the envy of others. Here, you can be yourself.
However, when you stay here for a long time, you will gradually become pure, or even childish. After reading too many extreme reports in the country, you will think that many domestic officials are simply against the people, and that domestic businessmen will feel that the businessmen in the country are corruption, and there is no morality. Your point of view is going to be generalized.. That means it's hard for you to go back. Countless people abuse on the Internet, countless people say that the network has brought democracy to us. We learn from Westerners and express our views unscrupulously.
However, what has not been experienced, people who have not seen, are not in that complex environment, do not jump to conclusions.
What is seen on the Internet is not necessarily true. Some people told me that I want to go to Australia because I think the domestic survival is too tired, the domestic people hate the rich and bully the poor, and too much love, make the dilemma. The domestic environment is very complicated.
However, it is from such a complex environment to stand out, it is rare. Domestic success, need more patience and review the situation, need more wisdom.
As a result, post-80s and post-90s children do not have the right to blame those in high office without knowing how much they have to suffer to become superior. At home, people would rather believe that the success of the original accumulation is not clean, and always arrogant, if you do it, it will be better than him.
There are all kinds of responsibilities in politics, even if there is no direct responsibility for a mine accident; a businessman's charity is thought to be too little, and people think you should be able to donate as much money as you can.
In fact, many people have experienced numerous struggles and humiliation to climb to the so-called high, then suddenly found that all of it is a last resort.
And their own all is based on a good position to do good, it is best to be said by the common people have changed their taste.
If you ask me what kind of life you prefer. I can only say that if I had a child in the future, I would tell him that life is not easy. We came to this world, not to enjoy.
In bad times, use Australian wisdom to simplify complex things; in smooth times, use Chinese wisdom to be vigilant and complicate simple things.
I will tell him that when poor, use the Australian mentality, do not envy the rich; and when rich, use the Chinese mentality, hide their strength, do not attract others' hatred, but also to face others' hatred bravely. I will tell him to learn to be alone, to be happy with the Australian spirit of Q, not to care what others say; to learn to live in groups, to respect, to be considerate, and to be timely silent. Don't complain easily, let alone be the online abusive person. Today's Chinese city, bustling and colorful, thousands of neon signs have long been like New York to the night as day, back to Australia, when it is a back garden, return to rural life, learn, a person, also to live beautiful, live a full life.