01 the most ignorant lie: the Chinese are unable to integrate into the mainstream foreign society
For a long time, there has been a lie around us: that is to say, after Chinese immigrants, they cannot integrate into the mainstream society of foreign countries. No matter how many years they have lived abroad and how many generations they have lived abroad, they have always been discriminated against and excluded, and Chinese can only live on the margins of society.
In order to take this lie in the hearts of the hearts of the people, some other people with ulterior motives have made up a piece of false news that has been made up and made.
But the fake is false after all, the Pacific Ocean is not covered, as long as you go abroad for a period of time, after contact with the local Chinese, you will find that this is one of the most ignorant lies.
The lie is fundamentally wrong, and we'll take the idea of the "mainstream society" first, regardless of the problem of social integration.
What is "mainstream society"?
What kind of "mainstream society" is that the Chinese can't be integrated?
In their propaganda, the "mainstream society" is equivalent to a high-end cocktail party, and the house is not a listed company's CEO, that is, the state park is not the company's CEO.
This is not a foreign "mainstream society" at best, can only be counted as "upper class society". Only a very small number of people in the whole society, who may have accumulated for generations, may have today's status and wealth, may be the upstart of finance or the Internet, can be on the Forbes list in just a few years, but they must not represent "mainstream society."
In developed countries, the social shape is olive, and most of the pyramid society is made up of the bottom. The two tips of the olive society represent the upper and bottom of the society, the number is very small, and the middle part is the ordinary people, is the "mainstream society" of this country.
So the lie was false and ignorant from the beginning. Not to mention that Chinese immigrants cannot integrate into the "upper class". No matter which race of immigrants, it is very difficult to enter the "upper class". If a civilian wants to become an aristocrat, he has to go through the accumulation of generations.
The mainstream society in the developed countries, in fact, is the general middle class. For the most part of the Chinese population in the developed world, the income of Chinese immigrants is higher than the median household income of the United States, and has been fully integrated into the mainstream society from the income.
You would say that income does not tell the problem, integration is cultural. Well, I tell you, the culture of developed countries, especially those of America, is immigration culture, and their tolerance of new immigrants is much better than that of non-migrant countries.
No matter what race of immigrants, as long as you are willing to integrate into the new environment, the people around you will be happy to accept you. Hundreds of years of history in western developed countries are full of ethnic struggle peace rights movement, people have paid a painful price, know introspect, only today's inclusive and equal immigration culture.
After emigration, please forget your "Chinese thinking"
I know people will say that you say they are an inclusive immigrant culture, and why are so many illegal immigrants expelled and excluded?
You know it's a "illegal"? It's your country. Would you like to open the gate and let so many illegal immigrants come in? Even so, in the light of the humanitarian nature of the western developed countries, many illegal immigrants have been accommodated and a number of legal identities have been given to many. However, the resources of any State are limited and it is not possible to accept all illegal immigrants.
After many Chinese emigrate, they still look at the new environment with their domestic survival thinking, so it will cause all kinds of water and soil to be dissatisfied and difficult to adapt to.
What is decent work, for example?
In China, decent work is not only make more money, the unit is good. Public servants of institutions, is the mother-in-law's favorite. And all kinds of blue-collar workers, waiters, small shopkeeper are often thought to have no face, the same school party is low.
But in developed countries, a blue-collar worker may make more money than a university professor, and even if he doesn't earn much, being a waitress won't be seen as humiliating.
Many Chinese have just migrated in the past, can only engage in simple blue-collar work, so they feel that it is Qu, cannot integrate into mainstream society, they don't know, in foreign mainstream society, blue-collar class is.
On the other hand, few young civil servants abroad are willing to do so, not only in low pay, but also in exchange for privacy, such as the disclosure of their property.
Others regard work as a means of making a living, as long as they make money legally, they are willing to do whatever they like. And we regard work as a symbol of class division. Do you think we are tired of living?
The other is the attitude to work.
In China, few programmers over the age of 35, after this age, either take the initiative to transform or be laid off by the company under a variety of excuses. Internet companies in developed countries are full of programmers or grass-roots jobs in their 40s. People don't have to compete through 996 overtime, and companies don't dare to lay off people at will because of age. After some Chinese immigrants have passed, if they continue to work overtime according to the way they work at home, they will naturally be excluded by other colleagues and will not be able to integrate into the new environment.
Different countries have different national conditions, so when new immigrants arrive in a new country, please forget your "Chinese thinking", or you will never be able to integrate into the mainstream society.
The world is very large. It's very small to sit in the well and see the world.
It is really necessary to advise those who are self-righteous to go out and see the world more, not to sit back and watch the sky. Immersed in the long history of China for five thousand years all day, I don't know that there are wonderful world history and world pattern in addition to it.
It is true that taking into account the part with Shi Ke's examination, China has a long history of 5,000 years, and therefore has developed a unique Chinese civilization, but this is only a part of the world history. On a long time, Chinese civilization is not the first, and the impact on the world is not the greatest. At least there are three ancient countries juxtaposed with Chinese civilization in the theory of the "four ancient civilizations" created by the Chinese people.
In that end of the end of the Qing dynasty, the British and British public, who had always thought that the British were not the barbarians, ran to the United kingdom, and the people here were polite, and the gentlemen's manners were no less than the Confucian gentleman. All kinds of advanced systems and technology have made him an eye-opener, writing a book for the West, and introducing the advanced system of the West to the people.
As a result, the Chinese people went up to the great officials and scholars, to the ordinary people, all attacked the book and Guo Songtao, saying that he was a traitor and traitor, and was soon removed from the post of minister by government of the Qing Dynasty.
The Chinese dynasty banned Guo Songtao's books, forbade people to read, and continued to preach the superiority of Chinese culture, so that nationalism reached an uncontrollable situation, and Boxer rioting broke out, making China enter the 20th century amid the humiliations of the fall of the capital.
At that time, science and technology were not yet developed, and the information was not yet smooth, so the people of China believed whatever they said. At that time, very few people went abroad, not to mention studying abroad. Even intellectuals were only immersed in the dream of Chinese civilization and regarded western culture as barbarian, so there would be Guo Songtao's tragedy.
But today, some people still want to deceive the people with ignorant lies, say that foreign countries are in dire straits, and make the life of immigrants miserable. Today, when the wisdom of the people has been opened, such lies will eventually be exposed, and these groups with ulterior motives will eventually go bankrupt!