When he was asked, would you like your parents to get back together? "No," he said.
A broken family.
Recently, a young Indonesian boy drew attention to 1.65 million people by drawing a group of cartoons about his parents' divorce process at the age of six.
The comic book is called "A story of a broken family."
The name sounds sad, but the ending is surprisingly warm, and many parents are ashamed to see it.
"my name is Azha,. It's a story about my broken family."
Soon after Mom and Dad met, they fell in love. After marriage, they decided to have a baby.
So I was born. My birthday was June 6, 2004. My parents named me Azka..
Before I was 6 years old, everything was beautiful, my parents loved each other, and I had a happy family that was enviable.
But slowly, mom and dad start quarrelling over trivia, dad is always furious, mother is sad tears, finally they can not tolerate each other, make a decision to divorce.
One day, when they told me about the decision, I was scared and had a lot of questions. They told me not to worry. I didn't have to choose between them.
I still live in the original home, I find dad has become more interesting, so I asked dad to stay with me more.
Mother lives nearby, she will come to see me almost every day, play with me, I am very happy.
Strangely, they no longer quarreled, but also accompanied me to the mall, together to play abroad.
I often sleep with Dad, because I am afraid of zombies, and Dad is very strong, sleeping beside him I am very comfortable.
Mother will always take care of me, we go to dinner, buy clothes, do a lot of things.
Many people ask me with concern: "how do you feel as a child of a broken family?"
As a matter of fact, I don't feel broken at all. They're just not married anymore, but they'll always be my parents.
I enjoyed it all, and they finally stopped quarrelling over trifles.
When I was asked, do you want them to get back together? I said: no, I just want to make them happy.
I can still feel mom and dad's love for me, so this is not a broken home.
Mom, I love you.
Dad, I love you too.
I am very happy with you.
Thank you, although you are apart, but in my heart, you are the best parents, you will always be my heart NO.1.
Read the story of Azka, inexplicably moved, but also happy for him to have such a good parent.
Although their parents divorced, none of them saw him as a burden, abandoned him in a twinkling of an eye, but doubly loved and cared for him. However, most divorced families, it is difficult to achieve this state of affairs. Usually, after a divorce, parents become enemies instantly, children either follow one of them, see the mother can not see the father, or caught in the middle of the parents, the rotation is extremely uncomfortable.
For innocent children, parents' divorce may be the biggest shadow of their lives. They have to face some people in society, the children who grew up in such an environment, it is difficult to create deep trust in the people around it, and it is difficult to really enter a healthy intimate relationship.
Because in the hearts of children: "they are abandoned, they are not worthy of love, there is no true love in the world, marriage can not guarantee long-term." No one can bring themselves sense of security, so lock love in your heart. "
From a parent perspective, marriage is really not a panacea, it can't change a person's character. Without love, never fantasize about slowly building feelings after marriage. Even the first sweet and happy marriage, in the triviality of life, can not guarantee the smooth completion of life. If love ends, divorce is a relief, but if you have a child, divorce should be handled properly. Let the child know clearly that he does not have to choose one of his parents, who, though separated, will love you forever. Divorce is not your parents' decision, it's not your fault, you don't have to be responsible for it, you don't have to feel guilty that mom and dad can't get back together.
I don't think anyone wants to see that one day their children's drawing paper is full of family sadness, it might as well be like the parents in cartoons, even if separated, but also give the children selfless and rich love.
May all people be together because of love. May all children grow up in love. May all those who have been hurt by life have a bright future.
