When it comes to Momo, everyone is shyly associated with the get laid software.
If Momo is the get laid artifact of the Chinese, then Tinder is the first choice for young North American get laid, they have similar functions, left sliding, right sliding, if two people like each other, then they can start to chat with each other.?
Everyone's impression here is that there can be no Commitment, no Exclusive, can be ambiguous, even get laid.
But two young men from San Diego, Calif., found true love through Tinder.
(Cheyenne HanLee), a 22-year-old Asian-American girl who lives in San Diego, Calif., one day met Gavin (Gavin)., who lives in a city through social networking software Tinder.
Soon, the two found each other very attracted to each other, immediately fell in love. Watching a movie together, traveling together, cooking together, cohabiting together, the two adopted a puppy together.
However, in the seventh month of the relationship, unfortunately happened. At a candlelight dinner, Cheyenne fainted from the table without warning and was rushed to hospital.
After the doctor's examination, Cheyenne was told a great deal of bad news and suffered from kidney failure. At the age of 22, kidney failure means disaster to Cheyenne.
High medical costs, painful healing periods, high-risk surgeries, and sequelae, the rest of Cheyenne's stomach will have to be piped up for the rest of his life.
Not only that, kidney failure means the need for change kidney, but scarce kidney resources, making surgery difficult.
Having a kidney transplant one day later, Cheyenne is less likely to survive.
According to the plot, the boyfriend who met on Tinder will break up at this time, it has nothing to do with himself, hiding without a trace. But Gavin did not, not only did he not escape, but also chose to accompany his girlfriend through the difficulties.
Accompanied, encouraged, all-weather care, Gavin took care of the sick girlfriend, sleepy on the couch next to the bed, get up in the middle of the night, change the urine bag for Cheyenne five times.
Accompanied by Gavin, Cheyenne began to do 10 hours of dialysis every day.
"I can't do anything every day. I've got tubes all over my stomach and chest, and I've got pain on every dialysis, and all my internal organs are wrenching," Ms. Cheyenne said, recalling what she looked like at the time.
At the time, Cheyenne's kidney function was only 2%. If Cheyenne leave dialyzer is five minutes, she will die.
Cheyenne was desperate at the moment.
On a quiet morning, she opened her eyes and waited for one day's dialysis, only to find Gavin gazing affectionately at her by the bedside, saying something that she would never forget in her life:
"Cheyenne, I've decided to donate my kidney to you."
It turns out that Gavin secretly accepted the test process while Cheyan was unconscious, and he and Cheyenne were able to match.
They had never discussed a kidney transplant before, and Cheyenne thought she would die from a failure to find the right kidney.
Hearing such a sincere word from her boyfriend, Cheyenne's tears burst into the eye.
I've only known my boyfriend for seven months on Tinder, but are willing to donate a precious kidney to myself. She tried to embrace Gavin with feeble arms, thanking him and rejecting his request.
She didn't want the healthy, strong, sunny boy to lose a kidney as much as she did, which would affect his life.
Like fitness, he may no longer be able to easily raise dumbbell, run a while may be gasping. He can no longer play his favorite football and basketball.
By the time decades passed, he would have had earlier kidney failure than his peers. She didn't want to see it like this, but she'd rather die on her own.
But Gavin had made up his mind. He had signed his name on the donation consent form and was ready for immediate surgery.
As Cheyenne's condition worsened, all the other donors' blood types did not match, and after a few days of stalemate, she had no choice but to sign the consent form.
Eventually, they completed a kidney transplant in the same bed. After the operation, Gavin opened his eyes weakly, and when the doctor told him that the operation was successful, he breathed a sigh of relief.
Gazing across the hospital bed at the girl friend who had not yet woken up in a coma, though frail, his eyes were full of happiness.
After surgery Cheyenne, the body began to slowly recover, the scar of the operation also gradually healed.
You can even exercise and try to walk.
Now, a month after the surgery, both men recovered from the hospital and returned home. Cheyenne's body has improved significantly, with the exception of the need to drain regularly from the stomach every day, is no different from ordinary people.
And Gavin's stomach also has a very obvious scar.
"when people ask me why I'm doing this, I tell them, why not," Gavin said solemnly. "I think every man in this situation would do that."
Gavin didn't feel anything special about himself, he just did what he was supposed to do.
Every time Cheyenne heard him say that, she smiled and said, "No, I think he's special. Not everyone would do that."
"if she broke up with me before the surgery, I would still do it, and if she broke up with me later, I still don't regret it," Gavin said.
There are many scars on the stomach, but the heart is as gentle as the beginning. "I can't say how grateful I am to him," Cheyan said. "I don't need any more painful dialysis. He gave me a second life."
When life goes back to normal, they still drive to San Diego's La Jolla beach every Friday night, looking at the sunset and feeling that nothing has happened.
Some people don't believe in true love on Tinder, but the scene is not subversive.
Startled lovesickness did not reveal, originally only because of the bones, do not know, a deep love.
This couple let us believe that no matter where, can meet sincere love, as long as meet the right people.
I hope they can cherish each other and go on happily ever after.
